vdangerv1 Posted November 6, 2013 Posted November 6, 2013 (edited) Well, I got out of a 4+ year relationship a little over a year ago now and it seems every girl I talk to is very very interested at first, but then it's like all of a sudden it just stops. For example: I met this girl at work, we talk at work when we see eachother and what not and I ended up getting her number. Well we texted a lot that day and even days after, but right from the very first time I texted her, she would always give me one word answers. Which I thought ok, well she doesn't know me, this is the first time I texted her so maybe this is how she is. So we hung out the following weekend, we ended up staying at her relatives house for the night just talking for hours. We cuddled, hugged, woke up and cuddled/hugged some more. I tried for a kiss but she kinda let me kiss her but didn't kiss back. I dropped her off, then the texting was still one word answers most of the time. We hung out again the next weekend, same thing, except we kissed and we kissed a lot. She was the one who actually tried to kiss me this time. The next day, cuddled/hugged/kissed, she would randomly text me "hey gorgeous" to which I would reply to with "hey beautiful" but again one word texts. I sometimes call her babe, hun, baby girl (she said she likes that) and stuff. I asked her why she does one word texts and she says she don't know what to say half of the time. So NOW, she hasn't been saying any of those cute things, AND I am getting one word texts. We aren't hanging out this weekend because she has something to do with friends and I said that's ok, I don't want to take up all your weekends anyway so maybe some other time. What is going on here? She still smiles when she talks to me in person, and from the beginning she said she doesn't want a boyfriend right now which I said that's fine, I am not rushing anything or expecting to be a couple from this. Should I lay off on asking her to hang out and let her ask me for once? I mean, I asked her 3 times, and 2 of the 3 times we did hang out. The third time was just yesterday when I asked if she wanted to hang out friday night, to which she replied she might be going to a friend's performance but she would let me know. I told her don't worry about it, I don't want to take up your weekends when it's the only time you're free so maybe another weekend. I don't want to seem to clingy, but that's how I kind of am now. I used to be an ass and dbag and what not through out high school, but my ex really changed me some how and now I am one of the nicest guys who gets along with everyone and would go out of his way to help others and bring them up when they are down. I guess I am a pushover. I talked to a few girls who I intended on being no more than friends with and they all said from the very first time they talked to me they could tell I was very easy going and all around nice. I tried getting with this 10/10 chick my mom got me talking to and she says that and pretty much put me in the friendzone so I stopped talking to her. Edited November 6, 2013 by vdangerv1
Author vdangerv1 Posted November 6, 2013 Author Posted November 6, 2013 (edited) You are talking / thinking / acting like her Gay Best Friend. You need to get in touch with your inner Cave Man and find the happy medium between Caveman / Gay Best Friend. Haha, this made me laugh but what do you mean? What am I doing that makes me come off this way? Being in such a long relationship I have no clue how to talk to chicks anymore, and the bad thing is is I am only 20 years old = / Also, how can I do that again. I deffinitly was in touch with my inner caveman in highschool lmao. Edited November 6, 2013 by vdangerv1
Uwaae Posted November 6, 2013 Posted November 6, 2013 I think that this chick likes you, you might just have to act a little dangerous sometime. cuss, Do stuff like that, but show her youre a strong man
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