skarleta Posted November 6, 2013 Posted November 6, 2013 Hello. My sister has been dating a fireman for almost two years and I guess I suspect that he is just playing with her because he has gone to Hawaii approximately 5 times to see "family" and always says that he would like to take her with him some time. . She has met some of the guys he works with but no family members. He also often tells her that he is doing some business and won't be able to see her quite often...
lindsay1990 Posted November 6, 2013 Posted November 6, 2013 Depends on how seriously they are dating. If they see each other once or twice a week for dates, they could be pretty casual. If he has met all you guys and can't provide a solid reason for not bringing her to HIS family (even if it's hurtful, like having doubts about wanting to progress with your sister any further than the status quo) maybe his "family" in Hawaii is a wife and kids. Is he even going to Hawaii? Like I said, depends on the nature of the relationship in practice and if your sister is in it for a serious relationship, this behaviour sounds suspect to say the least. 1
truth_seeker Posted November 6, 2013 Posted November 6, 2013 Hello. My sister has been dating a fireman for almost two years and I guess I suspect that he is just playing with her because he has gone to Hawaii approximately 5 times to see "family" and always says that he would like to take her with him some time. . She has met some of the guys he works with but no family members. He also often tells her that he is doing some business and won't be able to see her quite often... Dating for 2 years and no commitment? He's playing her... 1
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