poptart0214 Posted November 5, 2013 Posted November 5, 2013 I like this new guy but i do not want to look desperate. He message me at work and ask me to come to see him DJ in a few days, so i went with 2 friends, we hit it off he stayed late at the bar we talked....he walked me to my car and we had a pretty intense make out session. He actually seemed into it. So we exchanged numbers and he texted me to say hi a couple times. His texts are pretty simple just hey what's up how's your day... I do think he is a little shy but he hasn't asked me out yet. It's been a week and i haven't heard from him in a few days. So he djs again tonight i want to just go alone and not with friends however he didn't invite me but I'm not sure if i should go...i want to go to see him cause i like him but i don't want to look desperate....now would i look desperate if i went alone Sorry so Long i just need the help
d0nnivain Posted November 6, 2013 Posted November 6, 2013 If you go alone I think you will look desperate. If you go with some friends & say hi, it looks more like you are just out having fun for the night & happened to picked the bar where he is. Of course he will know you came there for him but if you build in the distraction of other friends it's a bit more low key.
Versacehottie Posted November 6, 2013 Posted November 6, 2013 i agree with what was said above. Don't go alone. Looks desperate/is desperate, not to mention he will be working so will be unfocused. I wouldn't even go with friends--at least not this week. Save it and keep the texting going. Plant seeds so it's easy for him to ask you out. That you love a certain type of food or saw a new commercial for a movie that looks good. Also put yourself first-if you've already made out then he's not that shy. He should have the courage to ask you out. Play it cool until he does, evaluate him & see what he's ACTUALLY about. Don't overthink it or be too anxious. Guys move slow sometimes. Do your own thing and make you come to you.
Author poptart0214 Posted November 6, 2013 Author Posted November 6, 2013 Thank you both for your help. you are absolutely right. I really like him so I just play it day by day and see what his next move is. I am not going! 1
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