ex's

[MaggieFergXx]

So i will keep this as short as possible but i really need any advice you can give!!

 

My ex of 3 years broke up with me the day after we came back from our holiday, saying he didnt love me anymore or how he put it 'i love you but im not in love with you'

 

So now almost 2 months on, after some heart to hearts, massive fights, sleeping together, trying no contact - the works, im trying to move on.

 

For the past two weeks he has been trying to convince me and everyone else he doesnt care about me, has no feelings at all and is much happier without me. However, on friday night, we went to a mutual friends party and we had a bit of a conversation which didnt end well, then later i got super drunk and got caught up in the middle of a fight and got knocked out and he came running to my side and took me home. The morning after i texted him to thank him for taking care of me but i got no reply.

 

Why is he giving me such mixed signals? one minute he is super angry and the next he is acting like he cares and he loves me? i wish i didnt care but i would do anything to get back with him i would really love any advice or to read anything you guys have experienced with ex's!

 

oh and p.s right now we are in no contact

[Sososad]

I dont like to be the one to maybe dash your hopes. But you

were together for 3 years of course hr cares for you and i think

helping you when your knocked out he was doing the right thing

it sounds to me though he is trying to move on.

I know its tough but try stay strong

[Fufu]

So i will keep this as short as possible but i really need any advice you can give!!

 

My ex of 3 years broke up with me the day after we came back from our holiday, saying he didnt love me anymore or how he put it 'i love you but im not in love with you'

 

So now almost 2 months on, after some heart to hearts, massive fights, sleeping together, trying no contact - the works, im trying to move on.

 

For the past two weeks he has been trying to convince me and everyone else he doesnt care about me, has no feelings at all and is much happier without me. However, on friday night, we went to a mutual friends party and we had a bit of a conversation which didnt end well, then later i got super drunk and got caught up in the middle of a fight and got knocked out and he came running to my side and took me home. The morning after i texted him to thank him for taking care of me but i got no reply.

 

Why is he giving me such mixed signals? one minute he is super angry and the next he is acting like he cares and he loves me? i wish i didnt care but i would do anything to get back with him i would really love any advice or to read anything you guys have experienced with ex's!

 

oh and p.s right now we are in no contact

 

 

Helping you after you were knocked out is not sending you any mixed signals. I think any friends would have do that seeing any person in need of help.

 

It's time to move on.

[d0nnivain]

Not wanting to date you doesn't mean he wants to see you injured. By helping you when you were hurt, it proves he's not a jerk. That's all.

 

Even though this relationship ended, take some stock in the fact that you at least pick good guys to date who step up to the plate in a time of emergency & do the right thing.