TylerDurdenn Posted November 5, 2013 Posted November 5, 2013 I have a feeling this thread is going to make me look extremely big headed, I'm not but apologies in advance.. I'm 21, had two relationships, had sex with a few girls and hooked up with a few more girls. However, I have NEVER initiated the first move, and both of my relationships started due to her asking me out! I've had it very easy women wise, I've had girls offer me sex and come up to me asking for my number etc, but things are starting to change and I need to start making the first move but I'm scared of making a fool of myself! I really hate cheesey/desperate/perverted men and I do not wish to become one of them, I'd like to consider myself a gentleman! Any tips for approaching a woman whilst she is at work? (Restaurant, stores etc) How do I start talking to girl on FB without sounding like a creep? If I like to girl but find conversation to be slow, what do I do? I'm not really a fan of social media (I only have FB), does this make me look boring? Any other tips? Thank you any help in advance
d0nnivain Posted November 5, 2013 Posted November 5, 2013 I can't help you with the on line thing because I have never "met" anybody that way. In a restaurant or store, be careful. You may be confusing personable customer service with genuine interest. Otherwise, outside of bars where for some reason it is OK to talk to strangers, in other contexts an out of the blue approach can come off as dangerous. It's better to build up to it by smiling at the woman you see every morning while getting your coffee. Work up to a small "hi" then talk about the weather. I'm serious. It's a cliche for a reason. Then you can ask her out. I mean point blank no confusion -- would you like to get a cup of coffee with me -- ask. Don't beat around the bush ala -- ugh, gee do you think that you might wanna maybe hang out some time if you're not too busy.
Author TylerDurdenn Posted November 5, 2013 Author Posted November 5, 2013 'Would you like to get a cup of coffee with me' I like that.
bulls42 Posted November 6, 2013 Posted November 6, 2013 dude, same thing here i would say over the 24 girls ive been with 20 have been them making first move, now im 28 and i want a real relationship and i have to make first move and its been kinda tough, my advice just go out and ask who cares if they say yes or no, u got nothin to lose
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