whangose Posted November 5, 2013 Posted November 5, 2013 Hi all, This might be a repetition of an earlier thread, but I will like to start this as a new beginning, I am for the first time in this and want to share my story and get your advice. So there is this Girl, when the first time I saw her I dont know something happened. For months we are getting glimpse of each other. I caught her staring at me a lot of times. I am new to this and shy. Moving on, I decided to talk to her, we dont see each other very frequently. But I got my chance one day, I asked her about her dept/course, she replied and smiled a little and asked why I am asking. I was spell bound hardly managed to say- "Because I am seeing you for the first time". God I dont know why anything else couldn't strike my mind. The interaction ended their and we haven't seen each other for a very long time. I saw her again after sometime, It all started again she staring me when I am not looking and I looking her non stop (cant help it) After that I again tried to strike up a conversation this time I had a script and practiced it properly. she was with her friends and she saw me approaching her, I started with a hi. She did not responded, then I reminded her of our conversation and asked the same question again. She couldn't make a eye contact and clearly was nervous. I freaked out seeing her reaction, but since it was uncomfortable for her so I left. I was sure something is going on, maybe she is just curious. Next day I again caught her staring at me. So I decided may be I should talk to her online first, I add her on google plus, which she is not using frequently. added her to my friend circle. For 4 days there was no reaction. So, I messaged her... "Did I made you uncomfortable the other day? I just wanted to talk. Let me know how frequently you use Google plus" She didnt replied to the message but added few friends to her circle, one of which is a common friend. I instantly added the common friend to my circle, and messaged her (the girl I like) my wishes for a festival. Till now there is no response from her side and I cant figure out whats going on... Is she just curious or shy or not interested at all. I dont know what to do? Should I talk to common friend? what should I talk to the common friend. I really like this girl, but she is shy and reserved from looks and the way she carry herself she is definitely an introvert. I am also an cover up shy and an introvert plus I dont know how to flirt --- Please HELP
Author whangose Posted November 6, 2013 Author Posted November 6, 2013 Hi guys, Please spare a little advice... I don't know what should I do... I guess you guys can relate to the feelings, I am having right now... All the butterflies and goody-goody ... it is lovely ..Its funny...I can't reason these feelings . I was never this anxious for anything before and I am a straight A's student. (Which means I am a nerd) Anyways, thanks for taking your time and reading this far... Cheers!!
Author whangose Posted November 6, 2013 Author Posted November 6, 2013 Hey I can understand what you are trying to say, it should not be this complicated. But why I am bound to take such an approach is because of her nature, simple and sober . She never flirts with anyone. She has not shown any interest or curiosity to anyone else except me. Well to be fair I also have not shown any interest or tried to flirted with any other girl, other then this. We both are very similar . Please, anything else I could do...
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