Ginaa Posted November 5, 2013 Posted November 5, 2013 Ive been dating a guy for approximatly 3 weeks now,and after the first night I spent with him, he texted me saying - Now he has to go into an empty bed.. Is this his way of telling me he misses me?
soccerrprp Posted November 5, 2013 Posted November 5, 2013 Ive been dating a guy for approximatly 3 weeks now,and after the first night I spent with him, he texted me saying - Now he has to go into an empty bed.. Is this his way of telling me he misses me? Why the near-duplicate post? Guys who miss you say "I miss you (too)." It may be his sexual way of saying he misses you, but not necessarily the emotional way you may want.
felicity1 Posted November 5, 2013 Posted November 5, 2013 Why the near-duplicate post? Guys who miss you say "I miss you (too)." It may be his sexual way of saying he misses you, but not necessarily the emotional way you may want. Yeh, he just wants to get into your pants. It's manipulation. Be careful you don't confuse sexual desire with emotional needs-it's only 3 weeks. 2
tlegend Posted November 5, 2013 Posted November 5, 2013 Ive been dating a guy for approximatly 3 weeks now,and after the first night I spent with him, he texted me saying - Now he has to go into an empty bed.. Is this his way of telling me he misses me? .....I'm sure this is his way of telling you that he misses you and wishes you were in his bed to cuddle with him. At least, that's how I would've taken it...
felicity1 Posted November 6, 2013 Posted November 6, 2013 .....I'm sure this is his way of telling you that he misses you and wishes you were in his bed to cuddle with him. At least, that's how I would've taken it... This is a naive view.
tlegend Posted November 6, 2013 Posted November 6, 2013 This is a naive view. Explain how it is a naive view. You don't know the context of their conversation and communication. Neither do I. However, I have said that to my current SO many a times, and it's taken as a compliment. We aren't able to sleep together (actually SLEEP, not sex) due to her living nearly 40 minutes away. However, she knows I miss her every night I go to sleep without her in my arms and I reciprocate as much. I hardly feel that is a naive view.
felicity1 Posted November 7, 2013 Posted November 7, 2013 Explain how it is a naive view. You don't know the context of their conversation and communication. Neither do I. However, I have said that to my current SO many a times, and it's taken as a compliment. We aren't able to sleep together (actually SLEEP, not sex) due to her living nearly 40 minutes away. However, she knows I miss her every night I go to sleep without her in my arms and I reciprocate as much. I hardly feel that is a naive view. I have never met a guy who after knowing him for 3 weeks, asks me to simply lie with him. I would expect this to happen more in seasoned relationships, not in fresh relationships fueled by pheromones and infatuation.
soccerrprp Posted November 7, 2013 Posted November 7, 2013 I have never met a guy who after knowing him for 3 weeks, asks me to simply lie with him. I would expect this to happen more in seasoned relationships, not in fresh relationships fueled by pheromones and infatuation. I must say that it's not surprising that he said what he said. I have, after becoming physical with someone, made comments like, "I miss you next to me" or "I wish....." That's okay, I think and most women would be fine with that. BUT, if you're asking if he "misses" you and he responds with some sexual overtone or visual, then he is likely only regarding you in a physical sense. He misses having sex with you, but does NOT miss YOU, your company...
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