boxface Posted December 15, 2004 Posted December 15, 2004 Hi There is this girl who i like and she flirts with me somtimes and when i am in class we always make good eye contact. One time when we were speaking on MSN I told her that I thought she was realy pretty and I think she thought that I was taking the pi*s or somthing and kept saying "you don't mean that". In a way I think she might be saying it cos' she realy likes me and she dosen't belive her luck or she might be playing "hard to get" kinda' thing. But any-way then she said i was actig wierd and not myself and asked me if i was drunk! and I said no and that i meant it and she said she was confused and she said she had to go because it was arkward. Then the next day at school she was ignoring me and I don't know what to do because she won't tell me if she fancies me back, (When I told her i fancied her I was expecting her to say "sorry but I don't fancy you (which I would have been fine with)or sort of flirt back if she did fancy me) She is just giving me realy mixed messages. What should I do?
LucreziaBorgia Posted December 15, 2004 Posted December 15, 2004 I think you've done all you can, really. You told her you liked her, and she didn't respond either way except to ignore you the next day. She could be playing a game, but it seems more to me like she is trying not to hurt your feelings. It doesn't appear she meant for it to go beyond playful flirting. You'd think it would be easy for someone to say "I'm sorry, but I'm not interested". They'll do a lot of things to show it - like ignoring you, for instance - but no one wants to be the 'bad guy', so they really don't come right out and say it. If you want to know for sure, then you have to talk to her. Reiterate how you feel, and then ask her directly if you have a chance. You won't know for sure until you talk to her though.
alphamale Posted December 15, 2004 Posted December 15, 2004 females are born to give out mixed messages and some of them make it a lifetime hobby. unfortunaltely does not sound like this one is interested if a girl fancies you she will make it unmistakeable and will go out of her way to make it easy for you to get with her.
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