RedRobin Posted November 5, 2013 Posted November 5, 2013 There actually needs to be way more talk about you. Should start a thread when stuff like that happens. Maybe I will. 1
OpenBook Posted November 5, 2013 Posted November 5, 2013 I've always been strong & confident, maybe even too c0cky... If I wasn't happily married... I love a little vulnerability from my women, I just don't like when they take my crap. I think the last thing a guy wants is to be a GF.. that is what a woman's GF's are for... You know, you are just with the wrong men. A real man loves the fact that his woman needs him. I find when I don't ask a guy for help, that is when they offer. Not sure why. But darnit if I really NEED help, it's like, crickets chirping. Show me a woman that can do a 12 mile hike in the woods and fck like hell all night after we get home.. I will never understand men. Ever.
soccerrprp Posted November 5, 2013 Posted November 5, 2013 I will never understand men. Ever. Not all of them you quoted are men, but I take back the idea that men are simple. I'm a guy and can't figure out many of the guys on this site alone. 1
theothersully Posted November 5, 2013 Posted November 5, 2013 This looks like a case of "always be yourself." If you have a more sensitive side and you are hiding it in the beginning, you are doing your men and yourself a disservice. Just be 100% yourself from day one with these guys. Do not put a mask on. This way, you will come across someone who loves you for you.
OpenBook Posted November 5, 2013 Posted November 5, 2013 Not all of them you quoted are men, but I take back the idea that men are simple. I'm a guy and can't figure out many of the guys on this site alone. Right, the chickas that I included describe their observations about men. Put it all together, and you come up with a nice plate of spaghetti.
Els Posted November 5, 2013 Posted November 5, 2013 This has not been my experience, ES. The only guess I have as to why those guys reacted the way they did, is that they were with you for selfish reasons (aka good times only), and the second it looked like they might actually have to take care of the person they were with for a while, they bailed. Unless you were crying and ranting for 5 hours a day 7 days a week, or something...? 1
RedRobin Posted November 5, 2013 Posted November 5, 2013 (edited) I always stay far away from my wife if she has the flu IMO... it isn't that they are sensing weakness but something along the lines of drama or perceived drama, I think the last thing a guy wants is to be a GF.. that is what a woman's GF's are for... If a guy can't be emotionally supportive to me like I am for him, then I'll just go f*ck strangers. Because there are hotter and richer men I could have sex with who are emotionally unavailable and treat me like a live-in maid, nanny, or sex buddy. Dime a dozen. ... and since I don't need a man to fix things for me or buy things for me,(these are all things I know how to do myself), there isn't much reason to keep him around if he can't be my friend, confidante, companion, AND sex partner. It's not drama to expect the person you care about and who supposedly cares about you to reciprocate that love. I'm not asking for anything I'm not willing to offer either. Edited November 5, 2013 by RedRobin 1
thefooloftheyear Posted November 5, 2013 Posted November 5, 2013 Right, the chickas that I included describe their observations about men. Put it all together, and you come up with a nice plate of spaghetti. Yeah....And women are all about as predictable as the weather..:laugh: Thats what makes it FUN!! TFY
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