FrostBlaze Posted November 4, 2013 Posted November 4, 2013 Need opinions on what to do. I am the dumpee, she dumped me, obviously i still care. Gave her the NC treatment thing so i can get better (just barely) and she allready called back, at first i didn't answer, but she insisted the next day so i picked up, because it's just rude not to. She was all like " i missed you" calling me cute names as she did while we were together, asked me something like "did you forget me yet?" i gave her a answer that pretty was like "yes, i am getting over you", then she responded rather saddened "so fast?... well, keep at it.." <--with the pauses. Then the conversation kinda went sour so i ended it. I wasn't exactly being a jerk, i was just telling her to quit with all the cute stuff...as to what was the point since you don't want me, right? Soo did i read it wrong, is she just seeking attention, reconciliation? Or just "missed me". Frankly i think it's just that she got boored and needed attention but i am unsure. Because "duh" i hope for more. If she wanted something she would of just said it right? Instead of playing the games... Ty for imput.
CptSaveAho Posted November 4, 2013 Posted November 4, 2013 "lose my number" has always been a popular response.... dont know why its not used nowadays "none of your business" is a great line to have in conversation i personally prefer... "go f*** yourself" They typically expect this type of response and are disappointed if you dont give it to them while i get you "hope" for more, ex's have this ungodly sense knowing this and you will never get it while you do... wait till you actually dont care/indifferent about the situation and what responses you get from them then
LivingDeadGrl Posted November 4, 2013 Posted November 4, 2013 Sounds like she's playing with you. If she really intended on trying to get you back, she should have started the conversation off completely different. I would stick to NC, you will get over it.
Author FrostBlaze Posted November 4, 2013 Author Posted November 4, 2013 Figured as much, just that side of me that keeps saying "what if" so i had to ask for 2nd opinions. Appreciate any other thoughts. The thing that got me thinking was simply because, why would she insist to call so much, days in a row. Even tried from her other phones.
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