starla33 Posted November 4, 2013 Posted November 4, 2013 I randomly ran into this guy i was supposed to go out with from a dating site last week (we never ended up going out when we were talking online 6 months ago because he was flaky). Well he really liked each other in person and has been asking me out daily, but we haven't met up yet since i like to plan ahead of time. We made plans for today and he texted me: I'm sorry, but I'm a mess physically and mentally. I'm hungover and can't get out of bed and there is no way I can go to a bar today. This was his last chance since I knew him as a flake. I'm sure he has some issues in life right now.......but seriously? Do I even text back to this?
ponchsox Posted November 4, 2013 Posted November 4, 2013 He sounds like a real catch. In all seriousness, move on. He's telling you all you need to know.
Author starla33 Posted November 4, 2013 Author Posted November 4, 2013 He sounds like a real catch. In all seriousness, move on. He's telling you all you need to know. hes in his 30's so yea I mean that is weird behaviour for someone of that age
todreaminblue Posted November 4, 2013 Posted November 4, 2013 (edited) I randomly ran into this guy i was supposed to go out with from a dating site last week (we never ended up going out when we were talking online 6 months ago because he was flaky). Well he really liked each other in person and has been asking me out daily, but we haven't met up yet since i like to plan ahead of time. We made plans for today and he texted me: I'm sorry, but I'm a mess physically and mentally. I'm hungover and can't get out of bed and there is no way I can go to a bar today. This was his last chance since I knew him as a flake. I'm sure he has some issues in life right now.......but seriously? Do I even text back to this? Yes text back it would be the courteous thing to do, but let it and him go starla. Being a flake i think is going to a bar when you are hungover and in a bad place the guy obviously realizes he isnt in a good place and has actually told you so .that isnt flaking. Flaking is going through meeting at a bar when you are not well... send him a wish you well message and know he did the right thing by you obviously he is thoughtful towards you relieve his guilt and let him do what he needs to do to heal . you may be disappointed but disappointment only sticks with you until you find what you are looking for .Mental illness stays around much longer. you have hope he is fighting for his that isnt flaking its a struggle.So send him hope that you have, even though you are dispappointed say you understand and you appreciate his honesty, by forgiving him and wishing him well, Makes you a turning point whether you realize it or not...cheers Edited November 4, 2013 by todreaminblue
Author starla33 Posted November 4, 2013 Author Posted November 4, 2013 Yes text back it would be the courteous thing to do, but let it and him go starla. Being a flake i think is going to a bar when you are hungover and in a bad place the guy obviously realizes he isnt in a good place and has actually told you so .that isnt flaking. Flaking is going through meeting at a bar when you are not well... send him a wish you well message and know he did the right thing by you obviously he is thoughtful towards you relieve his guilt and let him do what he needs to do to heal . you may be disappointed but disappointment only sticks with you until you find what you are looking for .Mental illness stays around much longer. you have hope he is fighting for his that isnt flaking its a struggle.So send him hope that you have, even though you are dispappointed say you understand and you appreciate his honesty, by forgiving him and wishing him well, Makes you a turning point whether you realize it or not...cheers Then why ask me out for the last 3 days when all you are going to do is flake when we actually make plans?
tlegend Posted November 4, 2013 Posted November 4, 2013 Then why ask me out for the last 3 days when all you are going to do is flake when we actually make plans? Maybe because **** actually came up? Or maybe he really is just a flake.
Author starla33 Posted November 4, 2013 Author Posted November 4, 2013 Maybe because **** actually came up? Or maybe he really is just a flake. flaked twice now because hes "hung over"
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