McDonald Posted November 4, 2013 Posted November 4, 2013 Its been 11 months just about... this past weekend I have gotten 5 different phone numbers from girls, went out with friends every night, enjoyed myself, and saw the ex in person and saw a change in her fb profile pic in the messaging thing and had no feelings. Your usual chill you get, but ive learned thats normal. No thinking, no clicking.. no freaking out. Im completely happy at where I am. I have made it. now I just have to learn how to seal the deal with these new girls lol. 5
faithfully Posted November 4, 2013 Posted November 4, 2013 Its been 11 months just about... this past weekend I have gotten 5 different phone numbers from girls, went out with friends every night, enjoyed myself, and saw the ex in person and saw a change in her fb profile pic in the messaging thing and had no feelings. Your usual chill you get, but ive learned thats normal. No thinking, no clicking.. no freaking out. Im completely happy at where I am. I have made it. now I just have to learn how to seal the deal with these new girls lol. Good on you man, these heartbreaker dont deserve our time, love, effection!! Thats how it should be. Wish i am at that stage but i know i will get there with time. We need more positive thread. Take it u did NC then??
jphcbpa Posted November 4, 2013 Posted November 4, 2013 Stay the course and thanks for book ending this
Author McDonald Posted November 5, 2013 Author Posted November 5, 2013 Good on you man, these heartbreaker dont deserve our time, love, effection!! Thats how it should be. Wish i am at that stage but i know i will get there with time. We need more positive thread. Take it u did NC then?? I did faithfully. But like many on this site, I couldnt do it by my own will... It took myself to give up trying to talk to her, to try to reach out. I would tell myself I am going NC, but then I would text, or reply when I got one. Then, out of nowhere, it got the the point where I gave up reaching out. and that is when I was able to start making huge improvements. because when you can focus on just yourself, you can become yourself all over again. 1
strive Posted November 5, 2013 Posted November 5, 2013 Congrats! You give us hope that it really gets better. I hope I get there too.
cavalier99 Posted November 5, 2013 Posted November 5, 2013 Congrats McDonald! So glad to hear your doing well. It was a long journey for you. Dont worry to much about a new RS. That will come. Just enjoy being single and having a blast without the cloud of the BU. Im about 13 months post BU and it is like it never happened. All the suffering is a distant memory. I talk to my ex quite a bit and cant even remeber what i was torn up about! Turns out my emotional state and stituation is much more stable than hers. Absoluty no regrets. Glad the BU happened. hahaha. Rock on! Cav 1
NoLeafClover Posted November 5, 2013 Posted November 5, 2013 Congrats McDonald! So glad to hear your doing well. It was a long journey for you. Dont worry to much about a new RS. That will come. Just enjoy being single and having a blast without the cloud of the BU. Im about 13 months post BU and it is like it never happened. All the suffering is a distant memory. I talk to my ex quite a bit and cant even remeber what i was torn up about! Turns out my emotional state and stituation is much more stable than hers. Absoluty no regrets. Glad the BU happened. hahaha. Rock on! Cav I remember reading a lot of your threads..Actually when I first signed up on here, you were always on a post. It is crazy hot time changes things. 1
mikejensen3355 Posted November 5, 2013 Posted November 5, 2013 Congrats! Be grateful every day for where you're at. A lot of us would kill to be in your shoes and not feel this anymore. 1
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