seekingpeaceinlove Posted November 4, 2013 Posted November 4, 2013 I'm almost 3 months post BU and I'm doing quite well. I haven't moved on completely from ex and I'm not ready to date but I also have needs! I have plenty of opportunity to have FWB situation but I've been holding off. Deep down I think I'm holding out from being with someone else because I'm holding out for my ex. I don't want to be in a relationship with him anymore...but I want him so bad physically. We had the best physically connection. So...how long was if before you all had sex with someone else?
Phoe Posted November 4, 2013 Posted November 4, 2013 We broke up 7 months ago, so it's been 7 months and still counting. I went 2 years before that boyfriend. Numbers aren't any indicator of what is or isn't normal though. Do what feels right. 2
d0nnivain Posted November 4, 2013 Posted November 4, 2013 After different break ups the times varied. No matter what I was always at least emotionally prepared for a physical encounter. If having sex is going to make you feel like you are cheating on your EX or somehow betraying him, don't do it. 1
Legatus Posted November 4, 2013 Posted November 4, 2013 Just like Phoe said, numbers are not an indicator. Take your time and don't think about it too much in terms of whether it's you holding on to your ex. Maybe deep down, it wasn't just physical connection and you needed an emotional one first to establish the other.. 1
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