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I tried to do this Friday, however I was too drunk :)

 

Do I make anything of this? Why didn't she tell her mum we weren't together? I was with her for four years and loved her family..

 

(English isn't her first language by the way)

 

 

Her

Hello [me] r u ok

R u going to Dubai still for ximas

 

11/1, 8:41pm

Me

Hi [her], yeah fine thanks you?

Unfortunately me and [ex] aren't together anymore so no.. Really wanted to go though!

Hope you have a good time

 

11/1, 8:43pm

Her

Ohhh just like that

 

11/1, 8:44pm

Me

Yeah, her decision! I love her and she knows I'm always here for her

 

11/1, 8:45pm

Her

Oh I know u love her very sorry

But I don't know what's happying to her

 

11/1, 8:47pm

Me

Why?

 

11/1, 8:49pm

Her

Because she's was happy with u and she's change her maind just like that

One day she will miss u

 

11/1, 9:08pm

Me

That's what is so confusing..

She's the only girl I want

 

11/1, 9:09pm

Her

Eh I'm confusing is well

Posted

Maybe she hasn't said anything because she's embarrased to have to explain. Mom sounds like she doesn't want to get too involved IMO. "One day she will miss you", "I'm confused too". I think the most likely scenario is that the mom DOES know about the break up but maybe ex was too vague and too dismissive so she wanted to see if you had a different story. Who knows the impression ex gave, maybe she was too vague about it ane many things can run through a mother's mind, like "what if he cheated on her and she isn't saying much because she wants to protect him so they can get back together?". So it's possible she was just making sure the BU happenned on the terms her daughter said. This is my theory.

 

I would suggest not pouring your heart out: I love her, only girl I want, etc. Doesn't sound like mom is going ton intercede, to me.

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Probably was a bit soppy, just wanted to 'let her know' that I am still committed to her daughter and it was %100 her decision, I don't know why I did it.

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