sam-confused Posted November 4, 2013 Posted November 4, 2013 A quick up date : Its been about a month since my fiance dumped me. We are both living together and have been for a year. But we have been together for around 6 years. Basically he wanted to break up because he felt trapped and felt that we didn't do anything together anymore. He doesn't want to try he and he wont fight for me. I know you will be thinking tell him to move out and that's what he is planing to do. But he hasn't told me this yet I found out because I looked at his messages to a friend on Facebook. He has also been asking any and every girl that will talk to him if they want to date him. And he has been seeing someone but i don't think shes completely interested in him. The ting is he wants to move out but that means he will be leaving be with a lease for our flat with his name on it and all our stuff. How is he still going to pay the rent? Does he really think he can just walk away? I know I need to move on but I still love him and I cant do no contact because we live together but I have tried to not talk to him as much as possible. But part of me wants to tell him where to go and part of me wants to get him back. Yes I know I'm not right in the head who would want someone like that back. Hes just thrown us away like a pice of rubbish. I cant afford to stay here on my own and I know he couldn't possibly still give me half the rent whilst paying rent on his own place. I am going insane I want him to wake up and be a man ether own up to his mistakes of tell me straight what he's thinking because to him i don't know anything about the girls or the moving out. I'm finding this very hard and I don't know how to go about it. He has to stay but I don't want it but I do deep down! What should I say or do?
Philosoraptor Posted November 4, 2013 Posted November 4, 2013 Talk to your landlord to figure out how to get out of the lease. Do you want to keep the place for yourself? If not, then pack your stuff up one day when he is gone and leave. You are just suffering by continuing to stay with him... and it's not going to be any easier if he leaves and you are stuck there in a place the two of you had together. He's given up on the relationship and is trying to date anyone who will take him. He's a complete mess and you need to leave him to live with the choices he's made. So get out, take care of yourself, and start the process of moving on. 3
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