smuggy95 Posted November 4, 2013 Posted November 4, 2013 I just needed some personal feedback. My ex and I have been broken up for a little over a month now. A mutual friend said she kissed one of my good friends at a party. It was a drunken party kiss/makeout/whatever, and apparently more awkward than anything. I don't know, i wasn't there. But the next day my good friend is texting me asking me to hang out. And when I hear about the kiss, I wasn't bothered at first. I texted the friend and teased them about it. They said it was awkward and they'd rather forget about it. But then I got annoyed that they weren't apologetic about it, or considered it might be hurtful for me to hear. So I said "heads up, don't kiss your friends' exes in the future. some people will kick your ass and anyways, it's disrespectful." Then I said i didn't hate them, I just thouguht they were drunken idiots. No reply from the friend. Was i too harsh? I am sure my ex initiated the kissing, but I'm in NC and she's free to do whatever she wants. My friend was supposed to be my friend though....
Philosoraptor Posted November 4, 2013 Posted November 4, 2013 Yes, you were too harsh. He already said it was awkward. And though it may be some unwritten code that you don't go for someone else's ex; neither of them really did anything wrong. You weren't in a relationship with her and haven't been for over a month. A drunken kiss between two single people is just stupid fun, not anything to get your panties in a bunch about. 1
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