greenfairie Posted November 4, 2013 Posted November 4, 2013 I'll be rambling a little bit so bear with me please. I just got over a long term relationship and I feel like I've moved on to the point where I can enjoy dating life… Right away when I started putting myself out there, I met a British guy. He lives in England.. He came on really strongly, which kind of scared me but I really enjoyed the attention and his company was awesome too… We've been dating for two months, and he's been in England now for a month… We met thru mutual friends at camping one night and got hooked on each other right away. I'm a shy person so it's usually hard for me to find people to connect that quickly and heavily with. He's about 5 years older, and he is like nobody I've dated. He's a great guy and great company to hang around…. Amazing accent, I love listening to him. I adore him too. I won't be seeing him for another two months, we're meeting in NYC to spend about 2 weeks there…. I'm really nervous and excited. He wants to move to America by next summer but I'm really hesitant about where things could go… I really like him, but I don't see a future but I can really see him being a great husband and father to me. It's probably too soon to determine. Is it too soon for me to get serious with someone else?? I really do want to try and see where things could go, but I am terrified and I want to run into the other direction fast.
Philosoraptor Posted November 4, 2013 Posted November 4, 2013 If you feel you're ready, you're ready. But you'll not be seeing him for two months so you can continue to pace yourself without any real issues.
soccerrprp Posted November 4, 2013 Posted November 4, 2013 I really like him, but I don't see a future but I can really see him being a great husband and father to me. It's probably too soon to determine. What? You don't see a future, but you see him as a good husband and father? Yes, way too soon to determine. Is it too soon for me to get serious with someone else?? I really do want to try and see where things could go, but I am terrified and I want to run into the other direction fast. No idea if it's too soon. When did you last relationship end? Circumstances? Really, you know better than anyone else if you're ready. Good luck.
Author greenfairie Posted November 4, 2013 Author Posted November 4, 2013 What? You don't see a future, but you see him as a good husband and father? Yes, way too soon to determine. No idea if it's too soon. When did you last relationship end? Circumstances? Really, you know better than anyone else if you're ready. Good luck. Sorry, my words can be a bit contradictory. I see him being a great father and husband because the marriage already got thrown out there in our conversations… My last relationship ended about a year and half ago but didn't get really over it until this year. I do feel ready, but I don't. It's like a paradox. I don't know which one overpowers the other more, that's the problem I'm having right now.
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