DangerouslyInLuv Posted December 15, 2004 Posted December 15, 2004 Hello you guys, first time posting here and hopefully I can get some good feedback. My boyfriend of 5yrs has been constantly downing me because I have been unemployed. Let me tell u about the argument we had today.... See, my phone got cut off a couple of days ago. So he tells me that he's angry because I couldn't pay my bill and told me that if i would of kept working then I can keep my bills paid (which is true). So I asked him that if he was so mad then why don't he pay it, and he tells me that he's not going to pay $hit!!! He bought me a car 2mths ago and he steady throws that up in my face, and tells me that i could of paid for that if I had a job. But why throw that in my face?? EVERYTHING he does for me, he throws it right up in my face. I never ask him for anything, he always volunteer to do things. All I ask is "why do u have to downgrade me because i'm unemployed right now"?? During our argument today he tells me that from now on I don't have to worry about him anymore and that he wished he would of never cared enough to do anything for me. He verbally abuses me so much.My self esteem has gone very low, I feel like I never do anything right. When I first met him he didn't have NOTHING not even a pot to piss in, but I always stood by his side and never put him down for it. Now he thinks since he's a big time dope dealer that he is the $hit. I mean...how are u going to treat me like this and u out there doing wrong? What kind of motivation can I get from that?? For the record yall I start a new job tomorrow as a correction officer, and guess what...THE HELL WITH HIM!!!!! Do yall think I can do better without him??? I would appreciate any comments from anyone.
That_girl Posted December 15, 2004 Posted December 15, 2004 You can definitely do better than him. Trust me, you don't need some a**h*** bringing you down, life will be alot better without him. I know it's hard to let go of someone that you care about, even though he is an a**h***, but you will thank yourself in the long run. Congratulations on the new job girl!
moimeme Posted December 15, 2004 Posted December 15, 2004 Nobody needs a dope dealer in the family. Lose the loser.
XNemesisX Posted December 16, 2004 Posted December 16, 2004 No offense but dope dealer or not, it does suck having to constantly give money to somebody and it seems like they are not doing anything for it, or trying to get a job to the best of their ability. I went through that with my ex ex. He never had a job, and I was constantly having to give him money. It got old. I guess the real question is how long you were unemployed.
bebop Posted December 16, 2004 Posted December 16, 2004 Dope dealer??? No, no, no. And you are a corrections officer? Is this a joke? Sorry, but that's hilarious. That's like a cop marrying a hooker. omg.
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