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ExGF asked if she could go for drinks with a guy?


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Just want to know your opinions on this, because it seems like the way she has reacted looks like she was sincere...

 

 

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So here's the story:

 

She said that she wanted to have drinks with this guy she barely knows after her work. Just as friends, because she basically has no friends except two girlfriends.

She said she asked her best girlfriend that and she said if I didn't accept, that would mean I do not trust her enough.

 

She also said that she loves me a lot. She wanted to 'prove' it by sleeping with me, something she never does.

 

I didn't trust it, especially not because she kissed someone else before. So I let her go.

 

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Since then she has been very bitter towards me. And this just makes me doubt myself as I think she might have been sincere.

 

Do you think she was sincere?!

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If she's an ex why does it matter what she does? She probably slept with this guy, who cares?

 

Man, she's doing a good job of keeping you confused and around as an option.

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Wait, what?

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If she's an ex why does it matter what she does? She probably slept with this guy, who cares?

 

Man, she's doing a good job of keeping you confused and around as an option.

 

So that if and when the same situation happens again in any future relationship, I know what I should do.

 

Also it's just bugging me, so I'd like to get to the bottom of it. And sort this confusion out.

 

If she is an ex or not doesn't matter. Even if she weren't I'd be posting here.

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Just want to know your opinions on this, because it seems like the way she has reacted looks like she was sincere...

 

 

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So here's the story:

 

She said that she wanted to have drinks with this guy she barely knows after her work. Just as friends, because she basically has no friends except two girlfriends.

She said she asked her best girlfriend that and she said if I didn't accept, that would mean I do not trust her enough.

 

She also said that she loves me a lot. She wanted to 'prove' it by sleeping with me, something she never does.

 

I didn't trust it, especially not because she kissed someone else before. So I let her go.

 

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Since then she has been very bitter towards me. And this just makes me doubt myself as I think she might have been sincere.

 

Do you think she was sincere?!

 

Is she sincere?

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!

 

 

Please don't respond to her and best cease communication (Based on what you describe, I think you are way better off doing something else than to think about her intention)

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