Don't Posted November 4, 2013 Posted November 4, 2013 (edited) Although I have a positive attitude and friends tell me that I look happier, more confident now; deep down I feel sadness and negativity. It has been almost a year since my ex left me. I tried to be reasonable with her while maintaining LC for a few months after the break up and then I decided to move on with my life. First girl I hung out with was a very pretty girl but no brains and she was hung up on her ex; so she wanted to be friends and eventually went back to her ex who cheated on her. Ok cool!I missed the bullet. Then I dated another person not so pretty but smart, however she had commitment issues; so it didn't last more than couple weeks. Ok, next! So,recently I have been trying online dating and I have met four people so far, but no attraction at all and then I started to feel something for one or two of them, gues what happened? Their interest rate dropped since the pool of guys on those dating web site is so wide they can pick a better one, like shopping for new clothes. Ok! I understand that too. Today I went to hang out with my friends and they thought I was kind of a Casanova, because I was going out to dates with all these women. In fact, it makes me more depressed knowing the fact it doesn't work out for me. We went to have lunch and saw my ex gf's best friend and her boyfriend, so of course ignored them with all the awkwardness. Prolly they hate my guts since they are her friends, not mine. After all I realized my ex was one of the best and normal girls I have ever dated, which sucks to know. Another thing I just realized was; whoever I went on dates never lasted more than a month but whoever I met and got intimate with right away lasted for at least a year. So, I realized taking things slowly don't work for me because by the time we get to second base things end. I find it ironic. Now I have that frustrating feeling; I will never find anyone decent because so far whoever I met made me feel like crap. I know eventually the woman of my dreams will come or not. Hopefully if she does, it won't be too late because I'm already 29. Not that I'm rushing to marry someone but I don't want to end up like an old creep hanging around alone at a party looking for love. I want to do it while I'm young. I don't know if it made sense, but hopefully some of you will get what I mean. Edited November 4, 2013 by Don't
ponchsox Posted November 4, 2013 Posted November 4, 2013 29? You are super young. I'm 37 and still looking for love. It can come at any time in your life. 1
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