Lolita_Sky Posted November 4, 2013 Posted November 4, 2013 First off I'd like to say I have never had such a strong connection emotionally and physically with a man. Not even with my past exes. Yesterday I was making love with my boyfriend and I had such these strong emotions that welled up inside of me and it made me cry! What lead to this was that my boyfriend was so loving and affectionate. He wouldn't take his eyes off of me during. He would say my name and then tell me that he loved me. He said that he loved me from the bottom of his heart and then embraced me and explained that I have no idea how much I mean to him. It was such an emotional experience. Never have I felt this way before with anyone. It was so overwhelming. Is this normal? Am I weird for feeling this way? He has no idea that I was crying... It was a bit dark so he couldn't see that I was crying. I did it very silently...I have issues with showing that side of myself to people. 1
melell Posted November 4, 2013 Posted November 4, 2013 This guy made you feel really, really loved. It is normal, and great! We all experience things differently, and show it differently. Expressing your emotions by crying is perfectly fine
carhill Posted November 4, 2013 Posted November 4, 2013 OP, I think you described the impetus well, in that making love with your boyfriend in this instance was a very emotional experience, hence one expression of emotion is crying. To me, it sounds normal, and even happens to men. That's what intimacy is all about. Enjoy!
Author Lolita_Sky Posted November 4, 2013 Author Posted November 4, 2013 (edited) well not to discourage you but during sex people promise and say anything just because they are feeling the sensation of sex. so it doesnt have to be true. He said it before he left. He looked me in the eyes and told me that he loved me. Kissed me good night and then we talked for a bit when he made it back home before he went to bed. He said it again before getting off of the phone with me. I think he genuinely means it. He's always making eye contact with me. Some times its unbearable and I have to look away. His gaze is so penetrating... Edited November 4, 2013 by Lolita_Sky
Grumpybutfun Posted November 4, 2013 Posted November 4, 2013 Lolita Sky: Nope, nothing is wrong with you. My wife of 20 years cries all the time, and I have learned they are "happy" tears so it doesn't freak me out anymore like in the beginning. When she explained the connection she feels, it was a real bonding moment for us. Being vulnerable is scary, so it shows real courage for you to be able to do this with him. Best, Grumps
Author Lolita_Sky Posted November 4, 2013 Author Posted November 4, 2013 Lolita Sky: Nope, nothing is wrong with you. My wife of 20 years cries all the time, and I have learned they are "happy" tears so it doesn't freak me out anymore like in the beginning. When she explained the connection she feels, it was a real bonding moment for us. Being vulnerable is scary, so it shows real courage for you to be able to do this with him. Best, Grumps I see. Thanks a lot for your input makes me feel a lot better. lol
Daisy2013 Posted November 6, 2013 Posted November 6, 2013 Nothing wrong with that! I've cried uncontrollable tears of pure joy during intimacy with the man I loved. It happened only with him. Unfortunately, I've also cried sad tears with someone I felt a disconnection with while going through the motions.
mea_M Posted November 7, 2013 Posted November 7, 2013 Sounds like beautiful and blissful intimacy to me. Totally awesome and very normal. Mea:)
Raena Posted November 7, 2013 Posted November 7, 2013 The same thing happened to me at one point in my relationship with my soon to be ex. He didn't understand it at the time and was a little freaked out until I told him it was from complete and utter happiness. To be honest, it freaked me out a little bit too at the time to have such a strong reaction. It never happened before that and although it did happen a couple of times afterwards with the same person, things changed in our relationship and I never had it happen again. I have to say that I sincerely hope that I find that feeling again though. It was complete bliss and came from such a place of trust and connection that I felt like I was walking on clouds for days afterwards.
bubbaganoosh Posted November 7, 2013 Posted November 7, 2013 My best friend told me that his first wife would laugh when she had a orgasm. He said he was a real downer but she reassured him that all was well and it was. They divorced and maybe 7 or 8 years later she remarried. One night he ran into her new husband and he asked my best friend if she laughed during sex. My buddy got a real serious look on his face and said "Oh hell no, she would get so loud that the neighbors heard her and it was really embarrassing". The new husband looked like he was going to cry, then my buddy told him the truth. The new husband wasn't real happy for a while but my buddy calmed him down.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted November 8, 2013 Posted November 8, 2013 First off I'd like to say I have never had such a strong connection emotionally and physically with a man. Not even with my past exes. Yesterday I was making love with my boyfriend and I had such these strong emotions that welled up inside of me and it made me cry! What lead to this was that my boyfriend was so loving and affectionate. He wouldn't take his eyes off of me during. He would say my name and then tell me that he loved me. He said that he loved me from the bottom of his heart and then embraced me and explained that I have no idea how much I mean to him. It was such an emotional experience. Never have I felt this way before with anyone. It was so overwhelming. Is this normal? Am I weird for feeling this way? He has no idea that I was crying... It was a bit dark so he couldn't see that I was crying. I did it very silently...I have issues with showing that side of myself to people. Geez, this is among the top 1% of all LoveShack posts for being sweet and sincere. Just somebody... expressing herself about 'expressing herself'. It's OK to let him know it made you cry, but make sure it is clear that those were tears of deep fulfillment.
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