ViciousLaLa Posted November 4, 2013 Posted November 4, 2013 I've posted before, but honestly forgot bout that thread :/ Anyways, I basically met this guy while streaming a video game. We got real close real quick. It was crazy how attached we were. He'd tell me he was never this sweet to any woman, never fell for one this quick as well. We dated for four months, yeah I know so short,hell even I feel silly for what I felt within such a short amount of time. He was just so amazing >_< anyway, bout 2 and a half months in he was being alil distant. I told him straight up if he's not feeling it then just leave. He instantly changed his mood for the better. Bout a month ago he was being distant again. He seemed angry and never played games with me anymore. I had bought up my ex in a convo, he got mad n ditched me. Ignored me completely for a few days. I finally messaged him saying goodbye cuz this is immature. Again he instant messaged me back to chill. Like a dummy I let it slide and acted like nothing happened. A week after that I told him we needed to talk. He replied saying its best to just be friends cuz he don't see it going anymore than that. All I said was fine. For bout 4 days I ignored him, he messaged me twice. One was saying guess I don't wanna be friends. From there I started replying to his messages, which I shouldn't. Last thing I sent was a pic of me dressed for Halloween. He replied saying damn you look sick! I replied. It's been bout 2 days. I know his patterns, he's ignoring me now. Honestly, I don't want him back as a boyfriend. I just miss sitting around on Xbox talking and chilling on games. I miss my gaming buddy. We haven't actually spoken since we broke up. That Xbox one is coming out, in our conversations he'd bring up a lot bout me n him playing together and he'll spent money on a game he doesn't want just to play it with me. I guess this was more of a venting session. Think ill go no contact cuz I know he hates being ignored. Ill receive at least one message nearing that Xbox one launch. Don't mistake this as me wanting to get him back. It's kinda confusing cuz I do love him still, but I just want that gamer guy again. Any suggestions ? I know this post began to get confusing, I lost my train of thought while typing lol. So yeah, last message was pics I sent on Halloween. Idk, think that no contact will bring him back to chill again? Or at least miss me.
ThisGal Posted November 5, 2013 Posted November 5, 2013 I think it's safe to assume that you two haven't even actually met in person yet? Meaning, face-to-face contact, it's just all online... If that's the case, then like the Xbox, you both are playing games with each other. Too much immaturity and confusion. Find another gaming buddy. You'll be alright. There are plenty of them on Xbox. This whole 'breakup' is silly. Sorry.
Author ViciousLaLa Posted November 5, 2013 Author Posted November 5, 2013 Yeah sadly we were gonna meet near the end of this month. Had the date done with as well. I, myself, feel silly to have put myself in this position. Of all my relationships, I've never felt "this". Especially at our age, it's immature how things went about. 22 and 25. Yes we play Xbox at this age!! Lol. He still has yet to reply to me so it's w.e. ill leave his indecisive immature @$$ alone and continue being happy with my friends. I just had to let it all out in that post I guess. My heart aches for him, course, but I've got other ppl [: Thanks for posting tho <3
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