sleed Posted November 4, 2013 Posted November 4, 2013 Hello everyone. I've got a new job 1 month and a half ago and at this job there is this really pretty girl that has been eyeing me from day one. After a month of work she contacted me on skype(that is what we use inside the firm to communicate) and started chatting me up . I liked her a lot but never risked trying to talk to her assuming she wasn't interested , but she contacted me and it was clear she was very interested. She invited me out daily for 2 or 3 cigar breaks , told me she liked spending time with me and eventually she invited me to a bar , late at night when we got off work , at 2 a.m. . We work night-shifts. I eventually agreed to go out with her after she invited me 2-3 times(i really like her but i had to postpone). This is where it gets tricky , i'll summarize: 1. She has a lot , i mean a lot of guy friends (that wanna be with her , even inside the firm she has like 3 friend zoned guys) 2. She revealed that she has made some mistakes in the past , might have been promiscuous (that doesn't bother me at all because she had a fiance for 2-3 years , that means she can also be a good girl which is great). 3. This is the most important bit : She has a boyfriend right now and was flirting with me like crazy . The bar date after work : So we get off work ( i know she wants something because in the taxi she keeps turning back at me and smiling wide ) , we get into a cab and go to the bar. There in the bar i get a bit drunk after drinking a lot of alchool and she started telling me that she feels atracted to me and that she would kiss me if she wasn't in a relationship with this current boyfriend(about which she complained a lot to me ). I know that if a girl complains about a boyfriend the relationship is almost over , especially with girls like her (that are not desperate or super needy) . When she told me she wanted to kiss IF the boyfriend was not there i saw an excitement in her( and sexual passion) . I knew that she was sure i would try to kiss her and she would accept to kiss me in the end but i didn't go for the kiss because i've been in the other guys shooes. I know its horrible to get cheated on and dumped like a piece of ****. I was really horny and i like her a lot and it took a big effort for me not to jump her eager and excited ass right there(she is very pretty , a bit dorkish(daria/grunge rocker style), smart, funny and has a great ass . I ressisted and out of respect for the other guy (for what he might suffer) and for the sake of our future relationship(me and her maybe) i told her that i won't kiss her because i have some morality and i don't wanna piss on anyones feelings(like i have in the past) and that she needs to lose the boyfriend if she wants us to get to be a couple.I told her all this is a nice way . She lost all her excitement. She got a bit sad or upset i'm not sure. But i told her then that we can hug. We went for the hug. I just looked at her and opened my arms for her to come at me. She went directly for my neck , she embraced me and rested her lips on my neck(i told her a hug is not sexual) , that turned me on so badly , i can't even sleep after that ****. 1) What does this mean? If you say lets hug ... and she jumps for your neck? 2) In the end i want to say she is a great girl and very good looking and i would like to start a serious relationship with her. I first want her to make a decision about the current boyfriend to drop him or give him an other chance(but i would like her to chose me and leave him , i think i was way too nice anyway) . What should i do? Just tell her to decide in the next 3 days? Whats your advice? How do i make her choose me in a moral way , no cheating or **** like that i want to start clean.
Philosoraptor Posted November 4, 2013 Posted November 4, 2013 Doesn't sound like she's a very good catch at all. She's pretty much looking for a place to land and planning on jumping from guy to guy. Which doesn't sound off at all due to her promiscuous past. If you're looking for something short without a lot of attachment, have fun. If you want something serious, stay away from this one. As she'll jump from you to another guy just as fast as she jumped to you.
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