embear19 Posted November 4, 2013 Posted November 4, 2013 Hopefully someone can tell me what this means! I really don't wanna be wasting my time! So basically, I'm in my second year of college and I'm seeing a varsity athlete 1-2 times a week since the beginning of October. I am aware that he has a lot of friends who are girls (and because it is a small school, I am friends with most of them), but I know and have been told by a lot of people that he isn't the hook up type but has never been in a serious relationship. I have heard that he is one to be friendzoned by a lot of girls, which makes sense, because he is ridiculously nice. I know this is a red flag but the only times we have actually met up have been at the bar or at night where go to his house. The third time we hung out we had drunk sex, and then went to sleep. The rest of the next day we spent in bed just talking and stuff and he seemed really interested. He always makes me food and never kicks me out after. He also texts me throughout the day and only mentions hooking up when he makes jokes about it. It seems to be a pattern that we hook up and go to bed, and then stay in bed for the rest of the afternoon. Sometimes I go to class and then come back to his house to sleep more. He is never one to actively push anything, which is what I've been told happens in most hook-up relationships. But it could just be because he is ridiculously polite. In no way am I trying to sound conceited, but he has told other people and myself that he thinks I am attractive (but saying more like I'm hot rather than cute, which I know is a thing as well). He knows other guys take interest in me and I feel this makes him more insecure. I mentioned in the top line that he is a varsity athlete because I'm aware of their "bro" mentality and how they only hook up with girls because they can say they did, so maybe he thinks this ongoing thing will gain him something. But because of the way he acts when we are sober (ex. kissing me on the forehead, holding my hands, hugging me etc) It doesn't really seem like he's only in it for the kill. It's my first post on here but what I wanna know is 1) The possibility of it becoming anything 2) Whether or not he likes me. I think I'm starting to like him but I'm not sure E
404namenotfound Posted November 4, 2013 Posted November 4, 2013 I don't know how long you have been seeing each other but why not ask to make it official? Sounds like you see each other a lot and would kind of be the logical step.
Author embear19 Posted November 4, 2013 Author Posted November 4, 2013 I don't know how long you have been seeing each other but why not ask to make it official? Sounds like you see each other a lot and would kind of be the logical step. only thing i'm concerned about is that he doesn't actually like me and doesnt know how to be just strictly hookup.. He is nice and has never been a dick to girls
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