amlove89 Posted November 4, 2013 Posted November 4, 2013 (edited) Over the summer I was really into this guy. We hooked up a few times and I caught feelings. During the whole three months of this he always remained indifferent so I was never able to gather how he felt about me verbally and because his disposition I was indifferent as well. I didnt want to seem too eager or needy. One night he told me that he would text me when he was headed back home from hanging out with his friends, but he didnt. I brushed it off cus I didnt want to make a big deal out of it and it wasnt like we were exclusive anyways. The next night the very same thing happened, but this time I was upset and I couldnt remain quite about it. After a few days I decided to address the issue I was having with him. I told him that he did not follow through with what he said he was gonna do, which was letting me know when he came back to campus. He replied that he was not going to quit what he was doing to hang out. I was shocked cus he was being a douche, and I said "I wont ask you to hang out if you dont want to, just keep it real".. and he replied "ha ok".. This really pissed me off, at this point I felt disrespected. Told him I was wasting my time with him and said goodbye. It has now been 3 1/2 months of NC with this guy and since the last time we spoke he tried to say hi to me a few times. But I was so mad that I did not respond to him. I recently spoke to a friend of his that said this guy is just horrible at communicating, which showed to be true. I just dont understand what this guys problem is. Should I try to say hi to him and see how he responds?.. I did like one of his pictures on insta, but he has yet to like any of mine. Im not sure if he is upset that I ignored him or if he just doesnt know how to respond to me, since I ignored him. Im honestly so confused with this one and its killing mecus I do like him.... Edited November 4, 2013 by amlove89
MidwestUSA Posted November 4, 2013 Posted November 4, 2013 No, just no. Three months of indifference and now he's outright disrespectful? Nothing's going to change, but you'll set your NC status WAY back. Three months was plenty of time for him to do more than just hook up with you.
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