Whendovescry Posted November 3, 2013 Posted November 3, 2013 So i've been dating this guy for a month now. We aren't exclusive but, aren't really seeing anyone else either. He is a virgin and I am only the second person he has ever dated. He seems a bit clueless as to how dating goes but is a gentleman none the less. He also is a horrible communicator (daily). All of our dates have gone really well. The most we've done is make out and i'm not pressuring for anything more. But the other day I tried setting up our third date and he responded back more than 12 hours later saying he was broke and wanted to set something up in a couple weeks after he got a few paychecks. I offered to drive to where he lives (1hr away) because he was driving out to where I live every time. But, we ultimately decided on just waiting a few weeks . Since that conversation I have yet to hear from him at all (seeing a pattern). We both work full time in retail type jobs so our hours are pretty spontaneous. I guess my point with all of this is, am I being crazy to think that he might be lying to me? I already asked him (in a moment of weakness) if he was still into me and he said "Uhhh.. Of course! Are you ok?" I don't know why but, this is driving me crazy and so is him not communicating with me regularly.
d0nnivain Posted November 3, 2013 Posted November 3, 2013 He may be wary that he's not enough for you or any other woman -- financially or sexually. although it's hard & sexist, sit back & give him the chance to take the lead. Meanwhile live your life, which includes dating other people
crederer Posted November 3, 2013 Posted November 3, 2013 This sounds like pretty normal stuff. Just the fact that he could admit he was too broke to take you out shows how honest he is. I personally would have come up with something different if I was in his shoes. I really think you're just over thinking it.
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