404namenotfound Posted November 3, 2013 Posted November 3, 2013 (edited) I went for this girl like I would any other girl. She thought I was only interested in sex, which I wasn't, never the less that was a turn off for her. To complicate things just a little more she's sort of dating this guy but I can tell if something better comes along she will leave him. This guy really does suck in a lot of ways and she has told me enough about that where I know she really isn't that into him and they don't really do anything with him. I'd say at that point they should just break up and they don't really like each other that much. Its sort of like middle school dating. On my end of things she's really flirty with me and only me. She touches me a lot, texts me all the time, has likes everything I post on facebook, has gone back and liked pictures from 4 years ago on my profile, has sent me all sorts of selfies, likes to show off her figure to me, and generally acts interested in me. Its to the point a lot of people think we're dating or there is something going on between us. From what I have seen with her I'm just figuring she's just really flirty and likes the attention from me as I'm not bad looking myself. I've actually made some serious moves on her twice and she never took them. Now that I've pretty much stopped trying and just letting her be flirty she's upped her game and is being extra flirty with me, especially when other girls are around. I've actually started to get a little annoyed with it because if I invite her somewhere she will flirt with me to the point I feel she's scaring away other girls. Yet she won't actually do anything with me. So I told her I'm done and I'm not going to be interested in her in any serious way if she doesn't make some major moves and asks me out or something. What are your thoughts on this? I would want to date this girl outside her screwing with me like this. Not a fan of that at all. To the point she's going to have to cut the crap and make moves on me before anything will happen. Edited November 3, 2013 by 404namenotfound
eccentriclady Posted November 3, 2013 Posted November 3, 2013 ...is what I would do. You've ad hoc'd the flirting by word about her. Maybe ask her point blank or seriously what her intentions are with the two of you or what's in her plans, for lack of a better word. If she's flirting so ostensibly and alot where its her main M.O. its a front for what she may not want you to see about her or how she (really) feels about you ?
LucyElric Posted November 3, 2013 Posted November 3, 2013 I think you have the right idea about this girl. She definitely sound like someone who likes attention. The best thing would be to just ask her what the deal is. Make it clear you don't like the over-obsessive attitude when she hasn't even displayed a definite want to be with you. It may be that she does like you and that she simply doesn't know how to handle it, which would explain the constant flirting and the her hesitancy to actually enter a relationship with you, especially after apparently being in a bad relationship with someone else. Approach the subject with her. Let her know your serious about it and if she's not explain that she can't go on acting the way she is. It's hurtful to the both of you. Good luck!
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