aaron11892 Posted November 3, 2013 Posted November 3, 2013 It's been almost 2 months since my ex gf broke up with me. The majority of the time I have been coping quite well but still have those dark days where you miss her like mad and constantly thinking about her. Well today was one of those days. I 'thought' I had got rid of all modes of contact with her; her number, facebook, her friends facebook etc. However I have a friend of hers on instagram but she never ever posts pictures of her and my ex together so I thought there was no need to get rid of her. Well I woke up this morning and checked through and there was a picture of her and my ex in their halloween costumes looking very happy and my heart just sank. I've blocked her friend off there now, I do not want to see my ex anywhere. You know the saying "What you don't know can't hurt you", it is very true and as soon as I saw that pic of her looking happy and cheerful and opened that emotional wound right back up. Hopefully that will be the last I ever see of her on social media. My advice to you guys is to get rid of absolutely everything to do with your ex on social media. Her facebook, her friends facebook, her number, her freinds numbers, twitter, instagram etc. The less you know about your ex the more beneficial it will be to your own healing which is the most important thing after a break up. 2
emi Posted November 3, 2013 Posted November 3, 2013 Im glad you are brave enough to block her off everything, some people just cant do it. So its a very big accomplishment. And i hope you will get better soon
Author aaron11892 Posted November 3, 2013 Author Posted November 3, 2013 Im glad you are brave enough to block her off everything, some people just cant do it. So its a very big accomplishment. And i hope you will get better soon I don't understand why some people don't do it. They are only prolonging their own healing and it may get to the point when you see them enter a new relationship and that will be open a massive emotional wound. Seconds after writing this thread I get a message off her sister on fb, i thought i had blocked her. She just said hi, I haven't replied. Anyway I saw her and my ex were out last night for a halloween party and saw some of her recently added friends. It was a guy they met last night. I go on his profile and see a picture of my ex kissing him on the cheek with another friend kissing his other cheek. It is really getting to me. I've blocked her sister now. I feel as if I am cursed today to feel like **** and seeing my ex turn up everywhere. Will she please **** off out of my life!
emi Posted November 3, 2013 Posted November 3, 2013 I don't understand why some people don't do it. One million dollars question And i think you should block all of your mutual friend with her/ her family/anyone who know her/related to her until u have move on and then you can just decide for yourself. Or get off social media until you are ok again
Anethen Posted November 3, 2013 Posted November 3, 2013 I wish I could block my ex out of my life! He's unfortunately in several of my classes and is my lab partner for a lab that meets 6 hours a week. He's even going to be in a few of my classes next semester too, it's unavoidable. We are in the same major in college and only have a few core classes left to take before graduation in May. So, I'm stuck with seeing him for another 6 months. Good thing we are on "good terms." To the OP, you're really brave to block out the temptations of social media!
Author aaron11892 Posted November 3, 2013 Author Posted November 3, 2013 One million dollars question And i think you should block all of your mutual friend with her/ her family/anyone who know her/related to her until u have move on and then you can just decide for yourself. Or get off social media until you are ok again I have blocked everyone we both know now. Her nan, mum, sister, all friends etc. I think it is very difficult to get off social media altogether no matter who you are. It's almost impossible in this day and age lol
Author aaron11892 Posted November 3, 2013 Author Posted November 3, 2013 To the OP, you're really brave to block out the temptations of social media! I had to. I spend a lot of time in front of my computer anyway at work so the temptation would arise anyway no matter what. Reading a lot of thread about no contact aswell made me realise how beneficial it is in the long term. No matter the situation, it needs to be done for your own well being. After that little set back today, I can only look on to tomorrow and resume the healing process.
emi Posted November 3, 2013 Posted November 3, 2013 did u consider making new account? I made new facebook when i was going throught my break up. Its will be weird if i block all of my mutual friends, when they didnt do anything wrong to me. So i pick a easy way to create new facebook. And i know that girls usually take pictures together and post online, so i really know that its hard to completely get rid of trigger
Author aaron11892 Posted November 3, 2013 Author Posted November 3, 2013 did u consider making new account? I made new facebook when i was going throught my break up. Its will be weird if i block all of my mutual friends, when they didnt do anything wrong to me. So i pick a easy way to create new facebook. And i know that girls usually take pictures together and post online, so i really know that its hard to completely get rid of trigger I won't make a new account just to avoid her. However I did make a fake account towards the beginning of the break up to visit her page as she had blocked me. Bad idea I know. Since then I haven't just deactivated that account, it is permanently deleted. Everytime I'd go on there and see her becoming friends with these new guys and even guys from her past who I know she has had a bit of history with. It hurt too much so I had to get rid of it and it was for the best.
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