louiix Posted November 3, 2013 Posted November 3, 2013 So , we live in different cities ( 60 miles apart ) , went on our first date three weeks ago which went well with both of us affirming our desire to continue seeing each other . Now , after being in contact throughout the three weeks , we're scheduled to see a comedy gig this weekend (second date ) in my city and she has agreed to my suggestion to park her car at my flat so we could both travel on the train to the gig which starts at 8pm till 11pm . It looks to me as we are definately going to end up back at my flat for the night . I respect this lady to the extent i don't want to have sex with her so soon incase it might ruin things and i'm looking for a relationship not a one-off sex . Nevertheless , i wouldn't mind slight to modurate kissing and intimacy . Will she be offended or think i'm not attracted to her if i don't make advances on her ? and do you think she's actually prepared for sex ? Thanks
emi Posted November 3, 2013 Posted November 3, 2013 you just went on first date and you already think too much of it. 60 miles aint really a matter, so i dont think its so call long distance relationship, but anyway its not a big deal to say. i think you just need to take thing slow, go on many more dates and surely dont involve in sex if things not getting serious. For your own safety and avoid trouble later if things dont work out
CherryT Posted November 3, 2013 Posted November 3, 2013 Don't know the girl, so can't tell you what she expects. Maybe try holding her hand and see how she responds. Take things slow and prove to her that you're not looking for just sex. If she's into you, she'll reciprocate your actions. You've only been on one date, so maybe have a conversation about how you're more interested in having a relationship. Does she know that?
Solcita2 Posted November 4, 2013 Posted November 4, 2013 I'd say whatever happens, calls her the next day, that's the best way to show her it's not just about the sex...
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