JustaRegularGuyZ Posted November 3, 2013 Posted November 3, 2013 (edited) I've been chatting with this girl for over a week. We've been expressing ourselves very well and able to talk on a very comfortable level. She took liking in me and I like her. I really like her but she dislikes the fact that I am so giving and I ask for nothing in return and she is saying things like: "I don't want to disappoint you. You deserve to be with someone that can tell you all these elaborate eloquent things the way you tell me" "Don't think I'm the best girl in the world. Don't treat me like I am. I really am not and it just makes me feel like I'm failing you" Now she is asking me to give her time and space to think. Please let me see my mistakes. If you made the same ones, do you know how to fix it? I don't want to lose contact with her Edited November 3, 2013 by JustaRegularGuyZ
d0nnivain Posted November 3, 2013 Posted November 3, 2013 You didn't do anything wrong. She had massive self esteem issues or she wants you to chase her & say things like "Oh, no, of course you're perfect." Either way, she's gonna be very emotionally high maintenance. Proceed at your own risk & don't say we didn't warn you.
lovenotwar Posted November 3, 2013 Posted November 3, 2013 I think she could be telling you that she's not interested. One way to find out is to ask her if she's rather just be friends. As long as you've been honest with her about who you are and what your deal is, I don't think you have to worry about having made a mistake; if it didn't work out, it was probably just because you guys weren't a great match. There was probably nothing you could have done in the long-run. I know this is uber-suck, but the best thing is to just talk to her, and 'give her an out,' like I said above, to see what's up. All isn't necessarily lost if she friend-zones you though. Having someone be really attracted to you is actually very attracting in and of itself, so one final push hypothetically could turn things around. But don't be creepy, and have the grace to let her go if things really aren't going to work. After all, it's her choice.
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