blue963 Posted November 3, 2013 Posted November 3, 2013 I know its because we have more time on our hands, but why are weekends so darned miserable when you are trying to end things and make a new start?
C00kie Posted November 3, 2013 Posted November 3, 2013 I know its because we have more time on our hands, but why are weekends so darned miserable when you are trying to end things and make a new start? awful, really...it's past 14 pm where I live and going nuts here. I'm on the couch still in my pijamas. The weather isn't great. I thought about going to the movies alone but it would be depressing. Staying home is depressing as well. None of my closest friends is available right now. Awful. Let's hope we get through this someday...can't take no more...
KentuckyGent Posted November 3, 2013 Posted November 3, 2013 So I'm not the only one who feels this way? And I am many months out, still dealing with this heartbreak.
loveofhorses1970 Posted November 3, 2013 Posted November 3, 2013 Weekends are definitely worse. Last weekend was so bad, I almost could not get out of bed by Monday morning. Depression is very thick. This weekend, I'm trying to keep myself distracted by staying at my sister's home. But thoughts still pop into my head continuously and I'm having to fight them constantly. I just want this sick stomach feeling to go away.
Author blue963 Posted November 3, 2013 Author Posted November 3, 2013 not at all. Im not out but need to get out and its killing me. MM went away with his wife for vacation and ability to connect very sparse. Not a situation that is good for me in any way. Ripping my heart out.
Lostinlife4now Posted November 3, 2013 Posted November 3, 2013 fow here.... I hated the weekends! While he was very good at keeping contact on the weekends, I knew he was there with her! I hated it! Now she can have him all she wants and vice/versa......because I AM OVER HIM AND ALL OF IT!!! TaDAH!!!!!!!!!:laugh::laugh: 3
whichwayisup Posted November 3, 2013 Posted November 3, 2013 Make a choice here, give yourself a certain amount of time each day to cry and feel sad, but then pick yourself up and do something, get busy and put him out of your head. On weekends, call your women friends and go have fun. He is living and continuing his life, so should you! Be strong and don't let the pain and loss ruin you. It's okay to feel sad and to miss what you two shared but the reality is, you gotta move on too.
KentuckyGent Posted November 3, 2013 Posted November 3, 2013 I think I lament less about what we shared and more about the fact that while it was real for me, I was just another notch in the belt of a serial cheater and was used and fed a lines(s) of crap.
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