justwhoiam Posted November 3, 2013 Posted November 3, 2013 (edited) Hi all, I guess this time I need some words of encouragement. Flying out to him in a matter of hours. I am scared because yeah, I'm traveling alone and planes scare me a bit. Plus, I've been watching Mayday every week... So stupid when you know you are impressionable and about to fly... I'm tense. And things took a bad turn lately. Not about the relationship, but external events surely affected it somehow, even against our will. He's been laid off and started getting depressed and missing sleep. I'm his only support right now, literally. And I need to be strong for us both. He got panic attacks, etc. Deep down, I know everything will be fine. I need to get my baggage ready and just sort of postponing as if I had all the time in the world, as if I were leaving in a week or something. Maybe it's a way to keep my calm... doing things slowly... taking it easy. If you have any word of encouragement, it will be much appreciated. Edited November 3, 2013 by justwhoiam
emi Posted November 3, 2013 Posted November 3, 2013 Hello miss and welcome back. I've been noticed you been away for awhile from this forum. Its a pleasure to see you here again. And congratz on your visit. I hope things turn out well for you. Dont worry about it much, just think how happy you will be when you get to see your love one again, i think if the love is strong enough, you guys can pull through everything. And you sound like a mature kind of person, so i dont think you cant handle it if things go wrong I think your flight must be arrived soon. If you need to talk, we're all here for you
d0nnivain Posted November 3, 2013 Posted November 3, 2013 Focus on how good it will feel to be back in his arms.
umirano Posted November 4, 2013 Posted November 4, 2013 Hi all, I guess this time I need some words of encouragement. Flying out to him in a matter of hours. I am scared because yeah, I'm traveling alone and planes scare me a bit. Plus, I've been watching Mayday every week... So stupid when you know you are impressionable and about to fly... Flying is safer than any car ride, or even just a walk along the road. Don't worry. I'm tense. And things took a bad turn lately. Not about the relationship, but external events surely affected it somehow, even against our will. He's been laid off and started getting depressed and missing sleep. I'm his only support right now, literally. And I need to be strong for us both. He got panic attacks, etc. I feel you. I'm sure he notices your strength and will give it back to you one day, if he's the one. ... I need to get my baggage ready and just sort of postponing as if I had all the time in the world, as if I were leaving in a week or something. Maybe it's a way to keep my calm... doing things slowly... taking it easy. I always pack on the last day Usually one bag only. I like to travel lightly and come back with more than I left. Have fun with your man, hugs
Author justwhoiam Posted November 26, 2013 Author Posted November 26, 2013 Thank you, emi, d0nnivain and umirano, for your kind words. I wanted to let you know that I got back home safely! 3
Author justwhoiam Posted November 30, 2013 Author Posted November 30, 2013 Did you manage to reheat your relationship? Definitely so Depression did not get the best of him, and that really made me happy. At least my visit was positive. I knew it could happen, he was worried that he would ruin things or that I could see him not at his best... but in the end, all that did not matter, what mattered was being together. And it was probably my best visit ever, where we could do things that we skipped other times, etc.
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