Ordinaryday Posted November 3, 2013 Posted November 3, 2013 very long story short, about two years ago there was a woman I really liked and we kind of saw each other very briefly before she broke my heart and dumped me. I have seen a few women since then so I am pretty much over her, but obviously like everyone, I still think about her from time to time. Anyway, we hung out in the same circle of friends so even though she unfriended me on facebook, we still have a few facebook mutual friends. just today one of our mutual friends posted a facebook status update and I commented on it. about ten minutes later she commented on it as well, and she did not refer to me or anything, she just responded to him - but she wouls have seen that I commented on it first. even though she did not directly contact me, I kind of feel that this was a breadcrumb or something to try and get a reaction out of me - I have not responded, I am not going to, but does this count as a breadcrumb? I know I should have blocked her and all that, but I didn't and I would NEVER comment on a status of a mutual friend if she had previously commented on it, it would be awkward. she must have known that I would see that she commented on it so is it an indirect breadcrumb or is it more likely that she is so completely over me that even seeing my name on facebook doesn't mean anything to her? I KNOW this has no real world implications and 'it doesn't matter' and I should be moving on and all that... I KNOW THAT. having said that, is it more likely indirect contact or she is so over me that seeing my name on fb means nothing to her?
Janni Posted November 3, 2013 Posted November 3, 2013 Honestly, it's been two years. You were only together briefly and she just commented on a friend's status. Not even replying to your comment, but to the friend's status. I am sorry, but I don't think it means anything. It is not a breadcrumb or contact in any way. She really just commented on a friend's status.
Author Ordinaryday Posted November 3, 2013 Author Posted November 3, 2013 Honestly, it's been two years. You were only together briefly and she just commented on a friend's status. Not even replying to your comment, but to the friend's status. I am sorry, but I don't think it means anything. It is not a breadcrumb or contact in any way. She really just commented on a friend's status. weird thing is is that I am pretty much over her. I have since been dumped from a much more full-on relationship than what I had with this woman and if I pine over any woman who dumped me it is certainly not this woman so much as it is a different one! it was just an incredibly weird thing to get, cos I go out of my way to avoid my exes, and I would never initiate ANY form of contact, even something as indirect as this. but I guess some people are different.
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