JRaynolds Posted November 3, 2013 Posted November 3, 2013 So today its been a week since we havent spoken and about a month since we broke up. She sent me "Happy Helloween" text late at night 2 days ago, but i only saw the message in the morning, since i was asleep and she was out partying. I didnt pay attention to the message since its just a drunk text and probably doesnt mean anything. But today i gave in to my desire of texting her (i hate myself for doing it) and broke one week of NC by saying "hey" and followed with "just wondering how you are doing" after there was no response to the first message. There was no response to the second message either and i feel like an idiot for texting, shouldnt have given in. Each day with NC was feeling better than the previous, but now i feel like im back to day 1, which i pretty much am. Getting no response sent my confidence plummeting down. Thats it, just felt like sharing this.
loveofhorses1970 Posted November 3, 2013 Posted November 3, 2013 Yes, that's what breaking NC does...sets you back in your recovery. I've done it...several times...and hated myself each time. Start over, friend. You can do this.
Fufu Posted November 3, 2013 Posted November 3, 2013 So today its been a week since we havent spoken and about a month since we broke up. She sent me "Happy Helloween" text late at night 2 days ago, but i only saw the message in the morning, since i was asleep and she was out partying. I didnt pay attention to the message since its just a drunk text and probably doesnt mean anything. But today i gave in to my desire of texting her (i hate myself for doing it) and broke one week of NC by saying "hey" and followed with "just wondering how you are doing" after there was no response to the first message. There was no response to the second message either and i feel like an idiot for texting, shouldnt have given in. Each day with NC was feeling better than the previous, but now i feel like im back to day 1, which i pretty much am. Getting no response sent my confidence plummeting down. Thats it, just felt like sharing this. Don't over blame yourself, sometimes we do give in to our emotions after all we are human beings. Restart your NC and every time you will just get stronger.
BC1980 Posted November 3, 2013 Posted November 3, 2013 We've all broken NC and suffered the consequences. Sometimes, you have to learn that way.
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