crazybestie101 Posted November 3, 2013 Posted November 3, 2013 It's been 2 weeks + of NC. Ever since i stopped checking my email knowing that he will never contact me. It's like if i check it and obviously i wont see any email from him , it breaks my heart. So to save my heart from ache i no longer check my email. I even deleted few apps where we used to text each other , knowing that he blocked me there. Other day i was checking my friends pictures , places in pictures reminded my time with him. I litterally broke into tears. Last night only , i had nightmare about him chasing that girl he took picture with in halloween party. In reality , he has been chasing lot of girls but she is the main one right now but she doesn't give crap about it.I don't know may be i am reading too much. Any ways , tomorrow is our religious new year , gonna miss him though. I am not planning on wishing him for sure! Sometime i am too tempted to contact him and ask him about this girl and so on. But i know it's not worth it . I can't wait to get away with this feelings.
ayudorama Posted November 3, 2013 Posted November 3, 2013 You know, that's the deal with dreams. I get them often as well, and sometimes they throw me into reverie the whole day, I tend to look too deep into it I guess. This religious new year, are you referring to the Muharram? In any case, keep hanging in there. You're doing well keeping up NC! 1
Author crazybestie101 Posted November 3, 2013 Author Posted November 3, 2013 You know, that's the deal with dreams. I get them often as well, and sometimes they throw me into reverie the whole day, I tend to look too deep into it I guess. This religious new year, are you referring to the Muharram? In any case, keep hanging in there. You're doing well keeping up NC! Yea , i am keeping NC. umm , i meant " Diwali" , i am Hindu
Author crazybestie101 Posted November 3, 2013 Author Posted November 3, 2013 Any body else would say something on my situation ??
Justachip Posted November 3, 2013 Posted November 3, 2013 Any body else would say something on my situation ?? Yes happy diwali! hahaha enjoy the food and I love the Muruku. I'm not Hindu btw Anyway, best stick to NC. I've been NC for 3 weeks since my breakup 7 weeks ago and I feel great! Believe in yourself. Believe that you will get better and surely, you will.
Fufu Posted November 3, 2013 Posted November 3, 2013 It's been 2 weeks + of NC. Ever since i stopped checking my email knowing that he will never contact me. It's like if i check it and obviously i wont see any email from him , it breaks my heart. So to save my heart from ache i no longer check my email. I even deleted few apps where we used to text each other , knowing that he blocked me there. Other day i was checking my friends pictures , places in pictures reminded my time with him. I litterally broke into tears. Last night only , i had nightmare about him chasing that girl he took picture with in halloween party. In reality , he has been chasing lot of girls but she is the main one right now but she doesn't give crap about it.I don't know may be i am reading too much. Any ways , tomorrow is our religious new year , gonna miss him though. I am not planning on wishing him for sure! Sometime i am too tempted to contact him and ask him about this girl and so on. But i know it's not worth it . I can't wait to get away with this feelings. Happy Diwali Keep it up with the NC, it is challenging but with each passing day, praise yourself for keeping it up, it's an achievement after all Bad feelings will go away when you believe you can do it. Enjoy your religious new year and pray for an awesome year ahead. (it's simply not worth another person dampen your mood) 1
JDPT Posted November 3, 2013 Posted November 3, 2013 Keep strong and don't allow your emotions to get the best of you. Enjoy your holiday. 1
ss1891 Posted November 3, 2013 Posted November 3, 2013 It's been 2 weeks + of NC. Ever since i stopped checking my email knowing that he will never contact me. It's like if i check it and obviously i wont see any email from him , it breaks my heart. So to save my heart from ache i no longer check my email. I even deleted few apps where we used to text each other , knowing that he blocked me there. Other day i was checking my friends pictures , places in pictures reminded my time with him. I litterally broke into tears. Last night only , i had nightmare about him chasing that girl he took picture with in halloween party. In reality , he has been chasing lot of girls but she is the main one right now but she doesn't give crap about it.I don't know may be i am reading too much. Any ways , tomorrow is our religious new year , gonna miss him though. I am not planning on wishing him for sure! Sometime i am too tempted to contact him and ask him about this girl and so on. But i know it's not worth it . I can't wait to get away with this feelings. Hey, I'm Hindu too! Happy Diwali! Here's how I got over my need to constantly check up on my ex. Even though I've unfriended him on facebook and other sites, I practically got a "fix" out of visiting his social media pages. I got an app on my Google Chrome browser called "StayFocusd" which blocks those specific pages. There is no way to undo it (for the time duration that you set beforehand). Eventually, you get over your need to check up on him. Avoid scrolling through mutual friends' pictures for a while. I have actually unfriended a few mutual friends on facebook knowing that I would break down if I saw him again. You just need to remove those triggers for a while. You can't avoid e-mail forever though, so I recommend you check it. Even if there's nothing from him, you can even call him a jerk for not contacting you and it will help you move on. Whatever you do, don't break no contact. I know it's easier said than done, but here's how I see it...you've gone this long without contacting him, so do you really want to go back to square one only to get rejected again? Find distractions and enjoy your life because you deserve it!
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