krista28 Posted November 3, 2013 Posted November 3, 2013 I just dont have a clue if this guy likes me or not. theres a guy at work that i know has noticed me for awhile and i asked him out on a date. i am 30 and he is 40. we went out for a couple drinks. his friend was in town so he dropped by when we were on a date. i thought that was a little odd but he apologized for it. he mentioned to me a couple times about cute girls…ones he had met in his past life…and stuff like that. i thought that was a little weird if you were trying to impress someone. he also said he would make me some apple crisp that night as he is a chef. i dont know if that meant he liked me. at the end of the night he asked if he could at least have a hug. i didnt know if we should kiss. later in the night i mentioned something to him about how i thought something he said earlier in the night was sexy. he told me i should try it sometime…and i said i need a man first…he said you should work on that. i have no idea if he meant that guy was him, or if he kinda meant he wasnt into me..?i messaged him and said we don’t have to hangout anymore if you don’t want to..and that he was talking about tonnes of women. I guess that message didn’t go over well. he kinda stopped texting me and said he wondered why i said things sometimes. I think theres maybe a lack of communication there. but i was just confused by things and i thought when he said I should try that sexy thing, that he didnt want me or thought I didnt like him...its all messed up
Author krista28 Posted November 5, 2013 Author Posted November 5, 2013 thanks for the reply I suppose, however harsh it was. your right he gave me no indicator that I was special to him, I guess it was all one sided. he said that he wanted to get to know me...I just don't know what I did wrong..i guess not every guy is gonna wanna marry you.
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