Meganxox96 Posted November 2, 2013 Posted November 2, 2013 I'm 17, very nearly 18, and me and my boyfriend have been dating for over a year now. Of course like any couple we've had problems but we always managed to sort them out by talking. Mostly these problems revolve around my boyfriends moods. He can go from being the loveliest most amazing guy I know, to being the worst person. When he's in these moods he tells me he wants to break up and says that I don't support his career enough, when in fact he won't let me support his career. The real him always surprises me and makes me so so happy, it's literally this 1% of the time that upsets me so much because its like he doesn't care. I don't understand how he can be loving and caring one day, then 24 hours later become this awful person who is trying to push me away. Please help me understand what could possibly be happening in his brain as I really love him and don't want to leave him
d0nnivain Posted November 2, 2013 Posted November 2, 2013 Is he only this way with you or is he like this with the rest of his family? If you are close to her, ask his mom for tips dealing with him when he gets like this. When he does fly off the handle, you have to stay particularly calm.
KatZee Posted November 2, 2013 Posted November 2, 2013 This is emotional abuse. He has his own issues to deal with and it is not acceptable that he projects whatever is going on in his life, onto you. There's nothing YOU can do to make him stop this. You need to tell him that you're no longer going to tolerate his emotional abuse and if he has a problem, he should figure it out and not be around you. You're not something he can verbally batter whenever he feels like it and it's nothing you should take for a second longer.
Recommended Posts