OCCDAVE Posted November 2, 2013 Posted November 2, 2013 Well past week I've chatted with this girl and seemed so far so good .We had plans to hang Saturday but I got called into work so we agreed on Monday .Im at work last night (work at a club btw) I'm out in back then someone taps me and it was her .I won't lie I had the biggest smile on my face as did she.Finally time to go and bout 2o mins after she left I called her thank her for coming .I guess she was still there you can tell it was loud . Her-I'm at the bar just finishing up my drink while my friend takes to this guy Dumb me heard that but it sounded like she said she was talking to a guy which upset me then again we are not a couple .We both went to bed upset then again my reason was I ruined her surprise and made a nice outing turn bad.Top it off my boss said oh btw I need you for Monday so now I gonna cancel Smh now what I've yet to call/text give it few days or contact her act like nothing happen
d0nnivain Posted November 2, 2013 Posted November 2, 2013 I'd find the soonest time you have to take her out, even for a cup of coffee since you have to cancel again Monday. Dating while you work in a club can be hard. She's gonna worry women are flirting with you. If she comes to visit, odds are she's gonna drink & talk to other guys. You have to make peace with talking. 1
Author OCCDAVE Posted November 2, 2013 Author Posted November 2, 2013 Problem is I work another job so soonest will be Thursday for me.Tbh I agree about what you said guess Ive always been kinda jealous type .Then again she drove about 45 mins not to mention paid 15 for valet to see me not random guys .Im embaressed to even text/call her cause I don't know what to say plus I know I have to cancel to I act like I got called into work last min or let her know now. Btw I've yet to hear from her today then that's not a surprise
d0nnivain Posted November 2, 2013 Posted November 2, 2013 somewhere you can't find 1/2 hour for a quick cup of coffee? Just say that you are sorry for the misunderstanding & that it had been a long night. Don't talk yourself into a deeper hole 1
Author OCCDAVE Posted November 2, 2013 Author Posted November 2, 2013 Doubt it,She works the morning shifts and next week I'm on afternoon to late night .Seems all the cards are just stalked up.Plus like you said I'm sure she must think this guy is suranded by hot women I doubt I'm the only one .
d0nnivain Posted November 2, 2013 Posted November 2, 2013 make the effort At least throw it out there that you'd like to try to find some time. You'll get an A for effort as opposed to letting her think you are uninterested
Author OCCDAVE Posted November 2, 2013 Author Posted November 2, 2013 Sounds good,Thanks for the advice
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