jgibbs Posted November 2, 2013 Posted November 2, 2013 I am currently a student in college (Junior, 21 years of age), and being in a fraternity, I feel that there aren't any girls out there that are waiting for marriage, and a romantic and spiritual relationship with a guy. Sometimes, I feel it is me that is the cause of these problems, and that I will never find my true love. A little rundown of myself; I'm 6'4", on the skinny side, with dark brown hair. I've been called cute my many of my lady friends as well. I'm an engineering student, and currently have a really good job (in my opinion, I believe). I really value hard work and helping others less fortunate, and really want to find a girl I can be a hopeless romantic, head-over-heels mess with. I am a strong Christian who through rough times throughout my life, has a strong and unique faith in God and Christ, and want to share and grow in that faith with my my sweetheart. Will I ever find someone? Would you ladies want to be with someone like me? Any comments would be great help.
f1asr88 Posted November 2, 2013 Posted November 2, 2013 I am currently a student in college (Junior, 21 years of age), and being in a fraternity, I feel that there aren't any girls out there that are waiting for marriage, and a romantic and spiritual relationship with a guy. Sometimes, I feel it is me that is the cause of these problems, and that I will never find my true love. A little rundown of myself; I'm 6'4", on the skinny side, with dark brown hair. I've been called cute my many of my lady friends as well. I'm an engineering student, and currently have a really good job (in my opinion, I believe). I really value hard work and helping others less fortunate, and really want to find a girl I can be a hopeless romantic, head-over-heels mess with. I am a strong Christian who through rough times throughout my life, has a strong and unique faith in God and Christ, and want to share and grow in that faith with my my sweetheart. Will I ever find someone? Would you ladies want to be with someone like me? Any comments would be great help. I really hope you do, you sound like a great guy. (I'm a guy too, sorry ) Well I imagine your best bet would be to find yourself a girl with the same Christian values as yourself, who would only want the same kind of relationship you described at the start. So just keep doing what you are doing, work hard, keep going to church, and be as active socially as possible in religious groups and places where you may meet the type of girl you are looking for. To be honest I think there aren't very many girls who are looking to settle down and marry at such a young age. (a lot would rather be dating 'bad guys' until they have grown up or got desperate to have children with someone who'll pay for them) But at least there in the US there is still a strong and healthy pool of religious girls for you to have your pick from! (it seems to have died a death here in the UK) So don't be disheartened, be patient and it will come to you eventually.
elmichi Posted November 2, 2013 Posted November 2, 2013 I am currently a student in college (Junior, 21 years of age), and being in a fraternity, I feel that there aren't any girls out there that are waiting for marriage, and a romantic and spiritual relationship with a guy. Sometimes, I feel it is me that is the cause of these problems, and that I will never find my true love. A little rundown of myself; I'm 6'4", on the skinny side, with dark brown hair. I've been called cute my many of my lady friends as well. I'm an engineering student, and currently have a really good job (in my opinion, I believe). I really value hard work and helping others less fortunate, and really want to find a girl I can be a hopeless romantic, head-over-heels mess with. I am a strong Christian who through rough times throughout my life, has a strong and unique faith in God and Christ, and want to share and grow in that faith with my my sweetheart. Will I ever find someone? Would you ladies want to be with someone like me? Any comments would be great help. From that description, you sound like a real catch! This is coming from a past sorority girl-- now in my first year of grad school. I think I'm cute, nice, and intelligent. So, don't worry about it.. don't be afraid to make a move!
samsungxoxo Posted November 2, 2013 Posted November 2, 2013 If you can offer her the same thing in return then sure, you'll find her. You can find ''Christian waiting till marriage'' girls in churches or Christian forums.
Shashasha Posted November 2, 2013 Posted November 2, 2013 I am currently a student in college (Junior, 21 years of age), and being in a fraternity, I feel that there aren't any girls out there that are waiting for marriage, and a romantic and spiritual relationship with a guy. Sometimes, I feel it is me that is the cause of these problems, and that I will never find my true love. A little rundown of myself; I'm 6'4", on the skinny side, with dark brown hair. I've been called cute my many of my lady friends as well. I'm an engineering student, and currently have a really good job (in my opinion, I believe). I really value hard work and helping others less fortunate, and really want to find a girl I can be a hopeless romantic, head-over-heels mess with. I am a strong Christian who through rough times throughout my life, has a strong and unique faith in God and Christ, and want to share and grow in that faith with my my sweetheart. Will I ever find someone? Would you ladies want to be with someone like me? Any comments would be great help. Glad to know guys like you exist! You are stull young, love has a way of coming at the mist unexpected time.. So be patient I hope you find someone who shares you beliefs and morals ; dont compromise on that!'
wonderingwoman Posted November 2, 2013 Posted November 2, 2013 I don't think it is unusual to have not found someone at your age. As a culture we have evolved and don't place as much importance on relationships at an early age. However, I do believe there are women out there who are looking for what you are looking for and are your age. It takes time and spending time with the right people. I don't mean to sound judgmental or mean, but from my experience fraternity brothers don't always attract they type of women looking for a committed relationship. Fraternities generally attract women who are looking for a flirt, beer, and possibly a bed to sleep in. Try extending your social group. Maybe join a club/church or volunteer to meet more people. You could even do online dating. I'm only a few years older than you and was frustrated with my dating situation, and that is how I met my boyfriend. Worth a try. No worries through you will find someone.
maestrok Posted November 2, 2013 Posted November 2, 2013 Glad to know guys like you exist! You are stull young, love has a way of coming at the mist unexpected time.. So be patient I hope you find someone who shares you beliefs and morals ; dont compromise on that!' Ditto. If OP really is what he says he is, there should be more guys like him, I hope! But I wonder, why I don't see anyone like him around me? Where are all these great guys that I read about?
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