one_cool_mofo Posted December 14, 2004 Posted December 14, 2004 alright. there's this girl who's been on my mind for a while. she's in a few of my classes. she has given me long looks and has flirted with me a few times. i don't know if she's just being flirty or if she truly likes me, but she has outright stared at me numerous times. once, i passed by her, she saw me out of the coner of her eye, completely turned around so she was facing me and stared at me as i walked past, then my friends said she was looking at me as i walked away down the street. i'm kinda shy around her but she seems to be shy around me too. when i talk to her she seems very nervous but not uncomfortable. like she laughs and smiles but is still nervous. and i get the same way. i think she likes me, but i'm not sure. i asked her if she wanted to study but she told me she's in a study group (which is true, i just didn't know this) and she said nicely "maybe some other time". i want to ask her if she wants to hang out after she gets back from christmas break but i'm not sure if i should try to get to know her a little better before asking since we have only talked a few times and also should i wait all the way until next semester (a month from now) to ask?
Bronzepen Posted December 14, 2004 Posted December 14, 2004 There is no time like the present. If you keep procrastinating then you will never ask her out. Stop making excuses (not trying to sound mean) and just ask her out. You know the old saying....he who procrastinates...masterbates. Good luck!
Merin Posted December 14, 2004 Posted December 14, 2004 Originally posted by Bronzepen There is no time like the present. If you keep procrastinating then you will never ask her out. Stop making excuses (not trying to sound mean) and just ask her out. You know the old saying....he who procrastinates...masterbates. Good luck! Damn, I like that old saying! I've never heard it before.. but it's funny. I second what Bronzepen has said.
alphamale Posted December 14, 2004 Posted December 14, 2004 Originally posted by one_cool_mofo i want to ask her if she wants to hang out after she gets back from christmas break but i'm not sure if i should try to get to know her a little better before asking since we have only talked a few times and also should i wait all the way until next semester (a month from now) to ask? Dear ONE_COOL_MOf***R: does this girl need to hit you over the head??? this chick-a-dee digs you big time man. don't get to know her better or become friends cause then you'll be screwed. she wants to be an ornament on the end of your kock!!!! just ask her out man and do it quick b4 some other dude beats you to it. alpha
Author one_cool_mofo Posted December 15, 2004 Author Posted December 15, 2004 i shouldn't ask her when there are other people around right? i have to get her alone right? i have really only asked girls out that i have gotten to know a little better before asking. i am not used to this. usually in the past when i have asked girls out we were kind of friends first. i really like this girl a lot and i don't want to screw this up.
Author one_cool_mofo Posted December 16, 2004 Author Posted December 16, 2004 damn, i need to relax. i'm fine...
alphamale Posted December 16, 2004 Posted December 16, 2004 Originally posted by one_cool_mofo damn, i need to relax. i'm fine... chill man.....it's just a girl
Author one_cool_mofo Posted December 16, 2004 Author Posted December 16, 2004 Did I mention she's by far the most beautiful girl I've ever met?
Bronzepen Posted December 16, 2004 Posted December 16, 2004 Your getting intimidated over nothing. Don't let her beauty be a barrier. You will find out as you get older that the best way to get to know someone is when you date them. You don't need to be alone to ask her out. If she is with a group of friends then just walk up to her and ask her out. Then walk away. Your biggest fear is probably the rejection or the fact that she knows you like her. Bottom line.....so what. Believe me, your going to see and meet alot more "beautiful girl you've ever met". Like Alhpamale said...it's just a girl.
Author one_cool_mofo Posted December 16, 2004 Author Posted December 16, 2004 thanks for putting things in perspective guys. i get a little crazy when i really like a girl.
Merin Posted December 16, 2004 Posted December 16, 2004 Originally posted by one_cool_mofo thanks for putting things in perspective guys. i get a little crazy when i really like a girl. You'll be fine;)
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