confused83 Posted November 2, 2013 Posted November 2, 2013 I'll keep it pretty short, we have been amazing together and never once argued in person everything is amazing but the other day i had an issue with her going out with someone she had history with and it ended up just them 2 having a meal. I didn't mind too much but just was looking for a little reassurance to which we ended up arguing and splitting up over it. She rang me the day after upset and apologising saying how she didnt want it to end but she admits she is an 'ice queen' and hardwork but admitted she was really starting to melt with me. I cant figure out if its real that she is hardwork or if she just isnt that into me so i actually did the stupid thing of saying i didnt want to be with her anymore and hoped we could be friends just to see if she cared and she replied 'thanks for telling me' and thats it, we havent spoke for a day and i dont no what to do. It hurts a lot to think she might not want it with me anymore as i did really like her but just dont know what to do for the best. If i message her again i feel ill just be making myself look stupid if she doesnt care but then again i dont know if she does, really cofnsued. any advice? serious only please
mrlost Posted November 2, 2013 Posted November 2, 2013 Did she break up with you or did you break up with her? To be honest it sounds like she isn't that interested to begin with. If she was really into you, she would not have went on a date with someone she had a history with. Her saying she is an ice queen and not really warming up to you is just an excuse. If she was really into you and attracted to you she would not let you go for the life of her. The best thing to do now, i'd say is to move on and forget about her especially if she broke up with you. You'll find someone better, it'll be all good!
Author confused83 Posted November 2, 2013 Author Posted November 2, 2013 Did she break up with you or did you break up with her? To be honest it sounds like she isn't that interested to begin with. If she was really into you, she would not have went on a date with someone she had a history with. Her saying she is an ice queen and not really warming up to you is just an excuse. If she was really into you and attracted to you she would not let you go for the life of her. The best thing to do now, i'd say is to move on and forget about her especially if she broke up with you. You'll find someone better, it'll be all good! I kind of split with her this morning but her reply didnt say whether she wanted it to end or not. She has said the nicest things to me before but then can just go cold which does make me think shes just not that into me which feels horrible. I do want it to work but just cant seem to get anything out of her about what she does or doesnt want, tempted to call round to hers and see if she wants to talk but it could just make me look stupid and needy. Dont know what to do for the best, i could move on but if she did like me but just didnt want to say because i ended it then i may lose something good. She did say how she thought it was a load of them going but ended up just them 2 and she did call me soon as she left the restaurant to tell me all this which is honest of her but it does feel weird that she stayed for the meal with someone she had history with, apparently she spoke about me to him so he knew about me but i dont know whats true and what isnt and find it strange that she stayed with him for the meal.
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