Merin Posted December 14, 2004 Posted December 14, 2004 Whats the longest first date you've ever been on?! What made the date so good you didn't want it to end? I just met an amazing guy this past Saturday.. nice looking, smart, polite.. He called me on Sunday and we spoke on the phone for a few.. made tenative plans to hook up sometime this week.. He called me yesterday and invited me to dinner. We went to dinner at about 7 p.m.. stayed in the restaurant for awhile after having drinks and just talking.. went to a 1130 p.m showing of a movie.. and stayed up until 430 in the morning talking after that. I'm tired as all hell today but I think it was so worth it! He's a great guy:) There were a lot of things that made the date exceptional.. but honestly.. he made me laugh, didn't take himself to seriously and was direct.. I liked that about him.
mugirl213 Posted December 14, 2004 Posted December 14, 2004 My boyfriend and I had an amazing first date...we met for drinks/dinner at a game place (like Dave & Buster's or ESPN Zone if you're familiar with that) and then went to a comedy show..after which we went to a club attached to the comedy place and just sat and talked for forever...then we headed over to another club that has an upper bar area...and we sat down on these high chairs and looked down on the band in this whole little area where no one else was...it was so loud and noisy that it would drive you crazy normally, but all I heard was him talking and we laughed until the club kicked us out around 2 AM. Then we went back to his house and listened to music and kissed and stuff until like 4:30...then fell asleep and I went home the following day and took him to pick up his car (we met at the restaurant but I drove the rest of the night). It was just an amazing time for the both of us...as I usually don't "sleep over" on the first date...but I have never had a happier one...and we're still together 11 months later. :-)
Stone Posted December 14, 2004 Posted December 14, 2004 Aww I am so glad you had a good time, where did you meet this guy? The longest date i've ever been on was for about 24 hours, I was having so much fun I didn't want to go home.... Like I made a new best friend hummm. wonder what he's doing
alphamale Posted December 14, 2004 Posted December 14, 2004 Hmm...let see, I have to get in the wayback machine and go back to April, 1997. Met thick chick ath the bowling alley. She smiled at me and I got her #. Took her out to dinner 2 wks later on a Fri nite. Picked her up at 8pm. After dinnner went to bar then back to her crib. We made out with me sitting on sofa and her stradling my lap facing me. We kissed for hrs then she had to get up to go pee and I looked at me lap and there was a wet spot about 8 inches round from her "lube" Anywasy we ended up having sex all nite then all day Sat and Sunday till about noon. Mr. Weenie was about to drop off but he survived. I think we probably did it 15 times. So lets see...about 40 hours cause I split at noon sunday.
Author Merin Posted December 14, 2004 Author Posted December 14, 2004 Originally posted by Stone Aww I am so glad you had a good time, where did you meet this guy? The longest date i've ever been on was for about 24 hours, I was having so much fun I didn't want to go home.... Like I made a new best friend hummm. wonder what he's doing Thanks girl;) I met him at this sports bar/night club on Saturday night.. it was actually a place I had never gone to before.. so LOL I was happy I went! 24 hours on your date uh? What did you guys do? What happend between you guys?
Author Merin Posted December 14, 2004 Author Posted December 14, 2004 Originally posted by alphamale Hmm...let see, I have to get in the wayback machine and go back to April, 1997. Met thick chick ath the bowling alley. She smiled at me and I got her #. Took her out to dinner 2 wks later on a Fri nite. Picked her up at 8pm. After dinnner went to bar then back to her crib. We made out with me sitting on sofa and her stradling my lap facing me. We kissed for hrs then she had to get up to go pee and I looked at me lap and there was a wet spot about 8 inches round from her "lube" Anywasy we ended up having sex all nite then all day Sat and Sunday till about noon. Mr. Weenie was about to drop off but he survived. I think we probably did it 15 times. So lets see...about 40 hours cause I split at noon sunday. "Mr. Weenie" Omg Alpha you've got me laughing so hard! So what did happen to her? Ever see her again after that?
Barby Posted December 14, 2004 Posted December 14, 2004 I'm so glad you had a good time too especially with all you've been going through. I haven't been on a "date" in so long I couldn't tell ya what my longest was... Sounds like you two hit it off well, I hope you keep us posted on what happens..are you two gonna see each other again soon?
Author Merin Posted December 14, 2004 Author Posted December 14, 2004 Originally posted by mugirl213 My boyfriend and I had an amazing first date...we met for drinks/dinner at a game place (like Dave & Buster's or ESPN Zone if you're familiar with that) and then went to a comedy show..after which we went to a club attached to the comedy place and just sat and talked for forever...then we headed over to another club that has an upper bar area...and we sat down on these high chairs and looked down on the band in this whole little area where no one else was...it was so loud and noisy that it would drive you crazy normally, but all I heard was him talking and we laughed until the club kicked us out around 2 AM. Then we went back to his house and listened to music and kissed and stuff until like 4:30...then fell asleep and I went home the following day and took him to pick up his car (we met at the restaurant but I drove the rest of the night). It was just an amazing time for the both of us...as I usually don't "sleep over" on the first date...but I have never had a happier one...and we're still together 11 months later. :-) Yay! an amazing first date that worked into something good;)
MelodyJ Posted December 14, 2004 Posted December 14, 2004 Damn, Alpha, that sounds like a good date!!! Yeah, did you ever see her again? A girl that gives it up on the first date is not always the one guys want later. I'm curious. I had a 24 hr date, we were just getting along too well and having too much fun, and yeah, I stayed the night, partly because we had been drinking and stuff and it wasn't safe to drive. But I was there, and it was late, and there was intense chemistry in our kisses, we did end up in bed and we didn't get to sleep until 3 hrs later. It was wonderful! And I did see him again.
Author Merin Posted December 14, 2004 Author Posted December 14, 2004 Originally posted by Barby I'm so glad you had a good time too especially with all you've been going through. I haven't been on a "date" in so long I couldn't tell ya what my longest was... Sounds like you two hit it off well, I hope you keep us posted on what happens..are you two gonna see each other again soon? Thank you sister:) Yeah we really got along well.. amazing chemistry.. LOL It was definately nice to have something good happen after all the crap of late.. I will definately see him again. He asked me to go out with him again.. and *blew my mind honestly* when he told me If I needed any help packing or moving that he would be happy to help me out.. that was nice.. plus like a lame slacker ass I haven't got a christmas tree yet (damn so lame of me) but because I'm moving right after Christmas I haven't been "into it" you know? He told me last night he was getting me a Christmas tree.. LOL he's a doll.
alphamale Posted December 14, 2004 Posted December 14, 2004 Originally posted by Stone So Alphamale did yoou ever see her again? yeah, we just had sex for about a 2 months. fun lady. then she went back to her ex-b/f. no loss cause i knew it was just for sex and so did she. but we were both totally cool about it and respected each other.
Author Merin Posted December 14, 2004 Author Posted December 14, 2004 Originally posted by Ms. M Damn, Alpha, that sounds like a good date!!! Yeah, did you ever see her again? A girl that gives it up on the first date is not always the one guys want later. I'm curious. I had a 24 hr date, we were just getting along too well and having too much fun, and yeah, I stayed the night, partly because we had been drinking and stuff and it wasn't safe to drive. But I was there, and it was late, and there was intense chemistry in our kisses, we did end up in bed and we didn't get to sleep until 3 hrs later. It was wonderful! And I did see him again. Yay for chemistry Ms. M;) This guy I met.. he's nice looking.. we have great chemistry.. but yeah.. I wasn't all about hitting it with him you know? I don't know him like that yet.. and again IMO better safe than sorry.
Stone Posted December 14, 2004 Posted December 14, 2004 Humm what did we do? It was pretty similar to Alpha's story, Sex was wonderful, he was EXTEAMLY hot I saw him a few times after but he was immiture I think it was just an intense physical attraction and we both jumped on it. He was actually the best I've ever had but he was SOOOOO Dumb, his name was Troy so I call him 'Troy the boy toy"
Author Merin Posted December 14, 2004 Author Posted December 14, 2004 Originally posted by alphamale yeah, we just had sex for about a 2 months. fun lady. then she went back to her ex-b/f. no loss cause i knew it was just for sex and so did she. but we were both totally cool about it and respected each other. Thats awesome that you both were good with what was going on and were able to let go of things with respect when it was time.
Author Merin Posted December 14, 2004 Author Posted December 14, 2004 Originally posted by Stone Humm what did we do? It was pretty similar to Alpha's story, Sex was wonderful, he was EXTEAMLY hot I saw him a few times after but he was immiture I think it was just an intense physical attraction and we both jumped on it. He was actually the best I've ever had but he was SOOOOO Dumb, his name was Troy so I call him 'Troy the boy toy" "Troy the boy toy" !!!!! Damn stone.. got to hate it when they're hot.. talented but dumb as a box of rocks!
Stone Posted December 14, 2004 Posted December 14, 2004 HAHA I prefer one nighters to be dumb, they will believe any excuse why you can't see them anymore.... (sigh) oh the days.... No more Hoochi Mama for me
Barby Posted December 14, 2004 Posted December 14, 2004 I know I'm a little slow..this post was a ways back but he offered to get you a christmas tree??? AHHHHH! That is soooooooooo sweet and thoughtful! WOW! And he offered to help ya move! Wow! Sounds like he's a winner...or at least good at making first impressions!
Author Merin Posted December 14, 2004 Author Posted December 14, 2004 Originally posted by Stone HAHA I prefer one nighters to be dumb, they will believe any excuse why you can't see them anymore.... (sigh) oh the days.... No more Hoochi Mama for me MG Stone!!! :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: That could be a whole different thread.. "The dumbest excuse I ever gave for why I couldn't see this person anymore" Hmmmm let me think on that one... LMAO
Author Merin Posted December 14, 2004 Author Posted December 14, 2004 Originally posted by Barby I know I'm a little slow..this post was a ways back but he offered to get you a christmas tree??? AHHHHH! That is soooooooooo sweet and thoughtful! WOW! And he offered to help ya move! Wow! Sounds like he's a winner...or at least good at making first impressions! I know.. I was blown away Barby.. honestly I was. In so many ways my EX is so much like yours.. that this guy last night really blew me away at how "normal" LOL and nice he was. I hope he's a good guy and not playing around like he is.. we'll see.. but my first impression.. he's amazing.
SoleMate Posted December 14, 2004 Posted December 14, 2004 Offering to help you move is really tops. I think we all love a helpful, hardworking, considerate guy, don't we? And a good conversationalist...beep...beep...move him to the finalist platform... Take it slow Merin...this guy sounds like a possible keeper...take it slow...take it slooooowwwwww. But you knew that.
Author Merin Posted December 14, 2004 Author Posted December 14, 2004 Originally posted by SoleMate Offering to help you move is really tops. I think we all love a helpful, hardworking, considerate guy, don't we? And a good conversationalist...beep...beep...move him to the finalist platform... Take it slow Merin...this guy sounds like a possible keeper...take it slow...take it slooooowwwwww. But you knew that. I thought it was really of great of him to offer to help me move too sole.. LOL I am moving him to that "finalist platform" taking it reaaaalllly slow.. (afraid of getting hurt is a lot of it I guess) but so far so good.. I'm trying not to get my hopes *too* high.. but I'm optomistic;) Thanks Sole;)
Stone Posted December 14, 2004 Posted December 14, 2004 You have kids right Merin? Does this guy have children? what does he think about kids?
Author Merin Posted December 14, 2004 Author Posted December 14, 2004 Originally posted by Stone You have kids right Merin? Does this guy have children? what does he think about kids? Yes I have 2 wee peeps;) He also has 2.. got married to young (like me) so he just turned 29 last month.. and he has his little people 50% of the time now.. so it makes me think he is doing all he can to be a good Dad you know? Again.. bonus points for him.
Stone Posted December 14, 2004 Posted December 14, 2004 (singing) Here's a story of a lovely lady..... I see the Brady Bunch in your future..... Gosh I don't know what's wrong with me today.
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