93TheHitStick Posted November 2, 2013 Posted November 2, 2013 been kinda depressed lately. havent hungout with my girlfriend for like 2 weeks maybe more. recently i started feeling a bit better and me and her hung out. we had a great time. today we were supposed to hangout again when she got off work at 4 o clock. at like 345 she texted me. i didnt get the first couple texts because i was with my friend. she started blowing up my phone. sent me 33 messages. when i called her i was annoyed because she made my phone freeze up. the whole time i was on the phone with her she was being really cocky and rude. like she didnt care about anything i had to say. i asked her what was wrong she laughed at me and said nothing. then she tells me she has to go. im like "where are you going?" she says "get over it" and starts laughing again. so i asked her again and she says "whatever i have to go back to work. just get over it" laughs again and hangs up the phone. i haven't spoken to her since. that was like 5 hours ago. then just now she texted me a sadface and asked if i was at home. how should i react? im really mad right now. like ive been really depressed for a while and i finally cheer up and ive been being so nice to her. and she starts acting like that? and the whole time i was upset she didnt even really try to be there for me.
Lansing Posted November 2, 2013 Posted November 2, 2013 Sounds like she is maybe trying to push you away... I wouldn't let someone disrespect me like that.
dreamingoftigers Posted November 2, 2013 Posted November 2, 2013 She sounds really dramatic and a "push and pull" type of girl. Ugh 33 messages. Just, .... Ugh. Whatever her motives are I couldn't deal with that level of intensity.
d0nnivain Posted November 2, 2013 Posted November 2, 2013 How old are you? If she's over 20, she's immature & you don't need this drama. 33 messages? If they all weren't a variation on someone is dying, she's a psycho. I think I sent my husband 10 texts last year when my father collapsed & needed emergency brain surgery. You can't get hung up on the laugher. It may be her immaturity & this is how it bubbles out. That's not a bad thing; it just is. She may not realize she's doing it. Have you ever calmly asked her to stop?
Art_Critic Posted November 2, 2013 Posted November 2, 2013 She sounds really dramatic and a "push and pull" type of girl. Ugh 33 messages. Just, .... Ugh. Whatever her motives are I couldn't deal with that level of intensity. I agree with DOT... and the texts..uggghh.. It takes me a month to send that many texts to my wife :laugh
bubbaganoosh Posted November 2, 2013 Posted November 2, 2013 i haven't spoken to her since. that was like 5 hours ago. then just now she texted me a sadface and asked if i was at home. QUOTE] Tell her "no, and get over it" and post a smiley face. 1
joystickd Posted November 2, 2013 Posted November 2, 2013 Just ignore her. These are the women that create bitter men and players. The longer you hang around the more damage is done to you. 2
bumpyroad Posted November 2, 2013 Posted November 2, 2013 Passive-aggressive, demanding BS. Pushing you away because she hasn't got the guts for real honesty. You're better off out of it, especially if you've got depression, you can do without that rubbish. 1
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