krista28 Posted November 2, 2013 Posted November 2, 2013 I just dont have a clue if this guy likes me or not. theres a guy at work that i know has noticed me for awhile and i asked him out on a date. i am 30 and he is 40. we went out for a couple drinks. his friend was in town so he dropped by when we were on a date. i thought that was a little odd but he apologized for it. he mentioned to me a couple times about cute girls…ones he had met in his past life…and stuff like that. i thought that was a little weird if you were trying to impress someone. he also said he would make me some apple crisp that night as he is a chef. i dont know if that meant he liked me. at the end of the night he asked if he could at least have a hug. i didnt know if we should kiss. later in the night i mentioned something to him about how i thought something he said earlier in the night was sexy. he told me i should try it sometime…and i said i need a man first…he said you should work on that. i have no idea if he meant that guy was him, or if he kinda meant he wasnt into me..?
d0nnivain Posted November 2, 2013 Posted November 2, 2013 I'm confused too. I hang back & see what he does next
Lansing Posted November 2, 2013 Posted November 2, 2013 He is probably interested but is hesitant because of the age difference and because you work together. Maybe give him more hints that you are open to the possibility and see where it goes from there. I wouldn't be "too" forward but just accept his invites/etc.
Valen Posted November 2, 2013 Posted November 2, 2013 He could still be interested in you. But he is playing safe since he's not sure you are into him. But the fact that you took the first step and invite him out. That gives him some indication that you like him. So at this point, if he likes you, he will try to invite you out next time. So continue to interact with him as normal, flirt back and forth. You made your move, now wait for his.
D-Lish Posted November 2, 2013 Posted November 2, 2013 (edited) I've had so many guy friends over the years- and they all admit one common thing: When they meet a girl, they immediately have an opinion of "I would sleep with her, or I wouldn't". It starts with 2 categories beginning with yes or no. It goes into variations from there- lights on, lights off. bright lights, dim lights, how many drinks would it take.. I'd pursue it, or go with the flow of opportunity. I don't judge guys for thinking, and often drinking that way. But... Armed with the knowledge that "I'd do her'' vs "I like her' IS a reality- it's up to the rest of us to decide to be a gatekeeper, or a revolving door for 15 minutes How you deal the "before stuff"" count. Edited November 2, 2013 by D-Lish
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