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Alright, so there is this really cute guy in my class. I always thought he was cute, but didn't really know him so I didn't think too much about it. We had to get into groups for a presentation, and it just so happened that he is in my group!

 

He is really nice, and sweet. After every group meeting, he would stick around and we talk for about an hour until he would have to go. We have "hung out" like that almost every day this week.

 

I am definitely crushing on this guy now, and I thought it was mutual.

 

Like, the first time we hung out after the meeting.. he asked me if I wanted to grab lunch. We had a nice talk that day.

 

On a different day, I was talking to him about how I have stage fright and I am really nervous about presenting. He told me that he would work with me on it, and that if I needed any help I could ask him.

 

I told him that I would e-mail him, and that's when he asked for my number. I was so excited because I thought things were going great.

 

The next day, I texted him if he wanted to meet before the presentation and he told me that he couldn't. I wasn't too disappointed because I understand it's a busy time for us.

 

He hasn't texted me since then. He still talks to me after class, but I am not sure anymore.

 

Our presentation is finally over, so I am not sure if he's even going to talk to me starting next week.. there's no real excuse anymore.

 

He's very relaxed, and laid-back guy. I am more on the shy side.

 

I know that sometimes people's perception gets blurred by their emotions.

 

So, is the feeling mutual or he's just being his charming self and I am deluding myself that he is into me too?

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It's possible, since he shot your early invite down, that he just wanted your number for this presentation.

 

But, the only way to truly know is asking him yourself. You might be scared, and you might not like the answer, but, you will know.

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It's possible, since he shot your early invite down, that he just wanted your number for this presentation...

 

Yes, that's possible but the rest of the group communicated through emails. Also, he's the one who initiated all the other times we hung out. He would suggest that him I could stay back and discuss it a bit more. Which, to me, felt like he wanted to spend more time with me. He hasn't done that with any of the other group members...

 

And we did have pleasant conversations. We didn't talk about the presentation as much as we talked about ourselves.

 

I am just really confused. I thought I was picking up the signs, but I just don't know anymore

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Then he may like you. But you have to be willing to take that extra step and ask him...or you'll never know.

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