AntiSocal Posted November 1, 2013 Posted November 1, 2013 I met this girl in 7th grade. Had a huge crush on her ever since. She had a crush on me too. We went to different high schools and we hadn't talked since 8th grade. Bumped into her at my school in early september. Not gonna lie was kinda thinking about making her my girlfriend. We have chilled a few times outside of school. But we attend the same school now so we see each other like daily anyway. Well today her friends wanted to smoke. So they invited me over and i smoked them all out. She didn't smoke at all though, i thought that was weird because she invited me over to smoke... Anyway me and her ended up having sex. It was our first time ever doing that. It kinda just happened. She's been telling me i need to make her my girlfriend first. I've been ignoring her. I thought the sex was good, she definitely finished. But right after we were done she got up, put on her clothes, and went to go talk with her "best friend" who is a guy. And they got up and went into another room of her house. She was gone for like 15-20 minutes. I'm cool with her having guy friends. And the dude seems a little...gay. But i know hes a least bi cuz i've seen him at parties. They claim to be besties and i don't want to interfere with that. But isn't it kinda weird that she would have sex with me, then immediately need to go talk to this dude for like 15 minutes? And she told me they talk on the phone every night since high school. She is 20 or 21 now so thats kinda weird right?
youaremysunshine Posted November 1, 2013 Posted November 1, 2013 Maybe she was confused or upset having sex with you when she wanted to wait until you committed to her. She might have needed to talk about her feelings with some one. Most girls would go to another girl but maybe he is the only person she has to talk to. 1
Phantom888 Posted November 1, 2013 Posted November 1, 2013 she definitely needed to talk to someone after her 1st time. She probably treats this guy like a girl anyway. It's not unusual, especially if he's a good listener. They can be best friends...almost like brother and sister. But only you can tell how they act like with each other. I can't see his hands.
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