sos456 Posted November 1, 2013 Posted November 1, 2013 most of the people having the worst feelings that they can't handle it rejection and ignoring but I don't know why I keep lowering myself over again and I cant care to preserve my pride for a player guy we were in LDR for a year , he helped me alot in our first few months but then he just start to ignore me and treats me like a **** ,I tried many times to forget the past because I did truly love him and he was expert player he never broke up but just treat me bad and whenever I ignore him for a while he pretend the missing and caring I know that all the signs or the red flags there but I feel like i am desperate or nothing value on me that's why he treats me like this I tried a lot to leave him ..crying alot , sick for weeks but then I am just contacting him again and return to my pain he absuletely ignore me, using me but I just can't help it I wish just to disappear from this life , I can't concentrate in my study or enjoying with my family or friends I know that I am just losing my life
Valen Posted November 1, 2013 Posted November 1, 2013 That's the main reason why I hate players. They toy with people's emotions without realizing the pain they cause can be quite devastating. It's usually the ones who has low self-esteem that they target. I'm sorry that this has happen to you. Don't let any of this be your fault. Learn from this experience and become stronger as a person. If you need emotional support to get through this, look to your closest friends or family members. Never contact him again. Block every avenue he may reach you. Just know that he isn't worth it. Players are not much better than rapists. They are predators and karma will bite them back one of these days. He's not even worth a second thought. If he somehow does contact you, I hope you have the strength to completely ignore him. He doesn't even deserve a response. Try and focus on your self again. What you were like before all this happen. Focus on what brought you joy and the goals you want to achieve in life. Just keep positive. When you meet the right guy, you're look back on this and realize how stupid this whole thing was.
Mario79 Posted November 1, 2013 Posted November 1, 2013 Have you talked it over with family or friends, someone that can be a support for you. It's good you recognize the way you feel over this guy is toxic because you may find yourself repeating a relationship like this in the future. You deserve better then to be treated like this. Like Valen said, people that live like that will eventually reap what they sow.
Zoe Lilith Posted November 1, 2013 Posted November 1, 2013 Hang in there, Mario..You are affraid of change, starting new with someone new. Some people are really not worth it us even mentioning their names, especially spending the day thinking about them.
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