AnyaNova Posted November 4, 2013 Posted November 4, 2013 Anya, I know that I may sound like a hypocrite considering my situation... I think you just have to let go of him. I know your intentions are coming from a good place but his issues are his own and apparently he wants to deal with them on his own. If he ever wants to pursue a friendship with you then it has to be his decision to contact you. Who knows, maybe the times you have broken NC has pushed him further away? Regardless of what is going on with him, your needs should be your biggest concern. The most important relationship you will ever have is with yourself. I know that. But on the off chance, having someone trying to fight this same thing here in my immediate area would have been good. it was worth the risk. And the pain right now isn't about him so much as it about me, what this thing has taken from me and the fact that I have been fantastic at selectiv partners who have it too. 1
greenfairie Posted November 4, 2013 Posted November 4, 2013 5-6 months of no contact with my ex. First time in my life I've never responded to a text. He didn't send me anything except invites to parties(especially his girlfriend's party and the girlfriend happens to be my old best friend I grew up since babies…like if you were me would you go!?! i don't think so lol) and a happy birthday text. I still didn't reply. It was so hard not to because I wanted to at some times. Especially when he texted me on my birthday about a month ago and I was so shocked at my ability not to reply. I'm so proud though.
lindsay1990 Posted November 4, 2013 Posted November 4, 2013 Can I join now? I know it's the fourth by I vow to stop looking up my ex on googl and from fake fb accounts. Him, his friends and his relations. At least for November. 2
grayarea Posted November 6, 2013 Posted November 6, 2013 Can I join now? I know it's the fourth by I vow to stop looking up my ex on googl and from fake fb accounts. Him, his friends and his relations. At least for November. Same here, the girl I'm pining for came back on to the dating site we met through, and i've been checking to see if she came on for some reason. i don't know why, just makes me feel more upset when she has, knowing she's on there chatting it up with some other dude.. Ugh.. So can I start now, too? I suppose I don't need permission, but someone just tell me to do it!!
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