wwobuk Posted November 1, 2013 Posted November 1, 2013 I posted on the Infidelity thread about my wife running away with a man 26 years her elder.http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/marriage-life-partnerships/infidelity/435620-husband-finding-out-finally I really am finding it hard to cope. I am crying endlessly. The doc has put me on the max dose of anti-depressants and all I can think about his her with this other man. 2 months ago we had the perfect marriage and it's like she is a completely different person now. She is a compulsive liar, a cheat and has done so much to hurt me. Why then would I take her back in a heartbeat if the opportunity arose. I can't control my feelings. She was my soul mate and now I am so alone. We are still bonded by our children. I have now gone no contact with her which helps but the distance feels like I have left a friend and the bond we have with our children is not as strong and that tears me apart
loveofhorses1970 Posted November 1, 2013 Posted November 1, 2013 I'm so sorry you are going through this. Breakups for me feel exactly the same way. It's hard. You will make it through it, though. From my view, you'd take her back because you would do anything to stop the current pain you are going through. It's like detoxing from an addictive drug. And it is extremely hard...and extremely painful...and you feel like you are spinning out of control. Focus on anything but her. Spend time with you kids. If you think of her, replace that thought with something else. You have to choose what you think about. It will get better! 1
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