kaio Posted November 1, 2013 Posted November 1, 2013 (edited) i have been dating a girl for 10 months. at the first place she is the one who approach me. then i just went dating with her and yeah we are like loving couple we did all the things as like we are in relationship. along the relationship itself she is the one who are the one show an effort. If she have a free time she will try to see me. even i feel like i dont want to go out she will come to me and fetch me and yeah, she does bought me clothes, a gift and many more. but still i do buy her gift also. but her effort is too damn high! i didn't realize during our 'relantionship' that i do not spend a quality time with her. she is the one make an effort, when we go out i sometimes didn't pay attention to her and so on (stupid me). few days back she told me she tired of trying and want to be 'single' and dont want to think about it. so no more actions from her like before. but at the same time she want me to be her friend. we still can hang out and chill out. but not as much as before. now i feel sad and now i realize that i actually love her so damn much! after the 'break up' i do cry and as for the 2nd chance etc i did that for 3 days. and it quite annoyed her. yeah it is because i do love so much. (but now i try to control my emotion because girl dont like a man that are weak)at the mean time she is close to her classmate Mr. A now they know each other for almost a month. and yeah. before this sometimes i asked her do she tell anything to your friend MR.A? she said no but i find out she does. but she dont know i knew about it. this Mr. A also have crush on her and always be there for here yet they are in same class. more time together. Mr. A also are trying to win her heart. and one more things is she told our relationship problem to Mr.A even before we 'break up'. but for me if we have problem with our partner we should not let other ppl know. and now im in a boarder line which i want to try harder or just move on. the things that i need to face now is 1. she didn't feel the same toward me anymore (but she did mention she still love me) 2. she also mention she want to see my effort aftter our 'breakup' because we are still friend. 3. Mr.A are trying to get her now. Pay more attention. 4. she is comfortable with Mr.A now sometimes the do went out together. 5. MR.A confess to her even she is still with me. 6. she kinda like MR.A 7.sometimes when i say i want to let her go and move on she will say "are you giving up?" 8. she still keep our photos in her wallet. she is too nice to other people. i dont know she is trying to be nice to mr.A or try to be nice to me. my birthday is on this coming december and she do tell me she are planning something for my birthday. i dont know. what is she thinking right now. and yeah her parents really do likes me. her parents now about bad things going on between us right now. but she also didn't know that her parents knew it. im quite close to her parents. i even told her parent i want to marry her. but, if the parents likes me, i need to win her heart back. thing coming december her father invited me together with my girl to their house located in other state (my girl stay with her grandparents). and she also want me to go there. when i asked y u want me to go there. she just say "i want you to be there, but it depends on your decision" i dont know what actually she want. she want to me to fight for her or what? i just want a 2nd chance to prove that i really love her. i just want to know, 1. do i still have a chance with her? 2. if i do what should i do? 3. if not, what should i do? somtimes i think that if i really love her i just should let her go and find her happiness and i can concentrate to develope my business. for now my plan is just be friend with her. no emotional talk, try to make and effort. and let see how is it going. hope you guys can help me. :') Edited November 1, 2013 by kaio
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